"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Got a number from girl around 2-3 months ago, never called cuz of mishap.. worth try?

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Ok basically what happened was I walked into one of my classes last semester and I ended up sitting next to this girl that I saw looking at me as I walked in. So basically what happened was I talked to her throughout the class kind of thing and everything went good, she was very talkative, kept the convo going, smiling throughout making EC good interactin basically. So class ended and I walked with her out and ended up getting her number. Now basically what happened was I got her number(and her name), but when I entered her number into my phone I never put her name. Now the thing was I had other no name numbers like that in my phone, and somehow, I'm not 100% sure how right now, I ended up adding her name to the WRONG number. I then called her 2-3 times and ended up talking to this OTHER girl that I had met (wasn't attracted to her at all really though, only had her number really for school work kinda thing). So basically I talk to this other girl 2-3 times and the convos never really went well, to me her interest level when I met her in class vs. the level on the phone never added up and I figured I messed up somewhere and she lost interest type of thing. The real girl basically told me in class that she was going to be busy the next week (exam time), and that she'd be doing stuff this week or whatever, basically told me times she be free indirectly kind of thing, while the wrong girl was basically telling me she had to go after short convos and kind of wondering why I was calling her. So I figured fvck it and never called the number again. It wasn't until later on recently 2-3 months after that whole thing that I realized what happened when I got a call on my phone from the fake girl and the real girls name showed up on my phone. then it all made sense to me.

So basically looking through my phone I think I know which number is the actual girls now. So I'm wondering what do I do? Should I try to salvage this number and call it, and if I do call it, what exactly do I say?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yes, call her. Its not what you say though, its the way you say it. Speak to her like you know her and flirt. When she goes who this is, tell her this is so and so from back then, remember me?

Yes/no dont matter. Tell her you going to have some coffee at star bucks, and ask if she would like to come. Dont make big complicated dates with her over the phone or ask her if she would like to go out with you. You going to have some coffee, ask her if she wants to come, done.


When she asks what took you so long to call her, chances are she wont ask, tell her ahhh, its a long story, I tell you later..... Im going to star bucks for some coffee, would you like to come? (notice you dont tell her time just yet) She sounds all well for it, then you tell her, I like my coffee at 8 AM, that sounds good for you? Sound all well, now you gotta see if she can pick you up, or vice versa, reduces chances of flakiness. Do you want to pick me up at 7:30, well go together?

If you can get her to your place to pick you up, you can two steps forwards one step back, put your shoes on and lets go, I cant wait to have my coffee.


Now, when you meet her and when she asks what took you so long to call her. Probably she will if shes attracted to you. Tell her, hmmm, how come you didnt call me? I dont know you number silly. Hmmm, you deleted my number? :) as you kino her arm.... She might then go no really how you didnt call me. Im not telling you! And dont tell her no matter how much she bags.



Dont leave messages. You can page her, but no more.
 

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no excuse me, dont ask, i mean tell her we should go out its been sumtime
 

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Can I again suggest a coffee date, dont even call a date. We going to get coffee. Chances of her going with you to the zoo for half a day are remote.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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