"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got a New Years Makeout but she hooks up w/ host

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FutureSpartan

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Long story short, this girl i went to high school with, I ended up being her New Years kiss, which ended up becoming a makeout, which later ended up becoming me eating her out. We were doin it in the bathroom which ended up ruining it b/c others wanted to use it.
She freezes out when i suggest going to another room in the house.
And then my drunk ass totally blew it by smothering her the whole night and then she ends up with the host of the party.

I totally blew it tonight guys.

I should not have drank so much. I ended being obnoxious as hell. DJ's do not get drunk, i was saying all the right things to her before i got drunk and then ruined it by smothering her fine ass.

Happy New Years!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Skepsis

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Don Juans that can't handle drinking don't get drunk.

Leave the rest of us out of that nasty generalization.
 
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tsmith2334

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I rarely get completely trashed these days. A few drinks, maybe a shot or two and I'm good.
 
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Obsidian

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She freezes out when i suggest going to another room in the house.
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i wouldn't really say you ruined it. it looks like she blew you off early on. Forget about it, tho; hors have no loyalty. She got a fix from you then moved on to someone else.

I think it's fastseduction.com that advises against giving a girl oral sex because then she can bail before pleasing you properly
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CuZzT

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And my new years eve kiss was my best friends hot 18 year old sister. I hope he doesn't remember that tomorrow morning although he saw it. LOL.

It should be fun explaining that to him tomorrow.
 
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j0n024

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Skepsis said:
Don Juans that can't handle drinking don't get drunk.

Leave the rest of us out of that nasty generalization.
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What are you talking about! Most of the guys on here always say "I was tooo drunk!" Or some other form of the same sentence and always say "I will drink less next time," so the generalization is one of truth because most people that drink ALWAYS say "I drank too much!"
 
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DonJoseCantosie

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Topic Creator. Its all good man! I know that feeling too...when something comes so close...something gets in the way. U'll get ur day dog, u'll get ur day and it shouldn't be too long. lol.
 
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