"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Got a little ****y...now im in trouble

El Don

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Theres a friend of mine who just broke up with her bf. Shes been stressed because shes got other things going on. I was never really interested in having a relationship with her but shes cute so I definitely wouldn't mind fooling around with her. Anyway, she was tellin me she had a headache and joking around I said "well I could take care of that for you and help get your mind off it". I thought she would just laugh and say shut up or something joking around but she actually said "I might take you up on that". I couldnt believe it worked haha. She then tested me because i am normally a shy person and she thought I wouldnt try anything with her, but I told her "well you know what they say about the quiet ones". She laughed, but now im in a situation though.

We dont hang out all the time but we talked on the phone earlier and she said that we need to hang out so I cant take care of her headache because she hasnt forgotten about it. I know now that I can fool around with but the problem is, is that I talked like I had experience but in reality I am still a virgin. I dont know what Im going to do.....I mean i know what to do but its going to be bad...help.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well if you don't want to be a virgin, go for it. Are you afraid of success? Come on man, grow some balls... it might be awkward but fortunately the learning curve is super steep and you'll be a natural only after a few times. I mean, it takes a LOT of sex to get really good (at least for me), but the two-pump chump phenomenon doesn't really last for awhile. You sorta get used to it.

If you're THAT concerned, go to a *****house... for real. I mean what else do you want... are you gonna complain that you're a virgin, or are you gonna complain that you can't have sex with a girl because you're a virgin?
 

OBSYDYN

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Vampire said:
Well if you don't want to be a virgin, go for it. Are you afraid of success? Come on man, grow some balls... it might be awkward but fortunately the learning curve is super steep and you'll be a natural only after a few times. I mean, it takes a LOT of sex to get really good (at least for me), but the two-pump chump phenomenon doesn't really last for awhile. You sorta get used to it.

If you're THAT concerned, go to a *****house... for real. I mean what else do you want... are you gonna complain that you're a virgin, or are you gonna complain that you can't have sex with a girl because you're a virgin?
This post is right on the money.
 

Scorched

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El Don said:
"well I could take care of that for you and help get your mind off it". I thought she would just laugh and say shut up or something joking around but she actually said "I might take you up on that". I couldnt believe it worked haha. She then tested me because i am normally a shy person and she thought I wouldnt try anything with her, but I told her "well you know what they say about the quiet ones". She laughed, but now im in a situation though.
Wow dude, you learned to flirt...
Now go jack off and ask her out on a date...
Guessing you have her number already...
 
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