Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Got a little ****y...now im in trouble

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Theres a friend of mine who just broke up with her bf. Shes been stressed because shes got other things going on. I was never really interested in having a relationship with her but shes cute so I definitely wouldn't mind fooling around with her. Anyway, she was tellin me she had a headache and joking around I said "well I could take care of that for you and help get your mind off it". I thought she would just laugh and say shut up or something joking around but she actually said "I might take you up on that". I couldnt believe it worked haha. She then tested me because i am normally a shy person and she thought I wouldnt try anything with her, but I told her "well you know what they say about the quiet ones". She laughed, but now im in a situation though.

We dont hang out all the time but we talked on the phone earlier and she said that we need to hang out so I cant take care of her headache because she hasnt forgotten about it. I know now that I can fool around with but the problem is, is that I talked like I had experience but in reality I am still a virgin. I dont know what Im going to do.....I mean i know what to do but its going to be bad...help.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well if you don't want to be a virgin, go for it. Are you afraid of success? Come on man, grow some balls... it might be awkward but fortunately the learning curve is super steep and you'll be a natural only after a few times. I mean, it takes a LOT of sex to get really good (at least for me), but the two-pump chump phenomenon doesn't really last for awhile. You sorta get used to it.

If you're THAT concerned, go to a *****house... for real. I mean what else do you want... are you gonna complain that you're a virgin, or are you gonna complain that you can't have sex with a girl because you're a virgin?
 
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Vampire said:
Well if you don't want to be a virgin, go for it. Are you afraid of success? Come on man, grow some balls... it might be awkward but fortunately the learning curve is super steep and you'll be a natural only after a few times. I mean, it takes a LOT of sex to get really good (at least for me), but the two-pump chump phenomenon doesn't really last for awhile. You sorta get used to it.

If you're THAT concerned, go to a *****house... for real. I mean what else do you want... are you gonna complain that you're a virgin, or are you gonna complain that you can't have sex with a girl because you're a virgin?
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This post is right on the money.
 
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El Don said:
"well I could take care of that for you and help get your mind off it". I thought she would just laugh and say shut up or something joking around but she actually said "I might take you up on that". I couldnt believe it worked haha. She then tested me because i am normally a shy person and she thought I wouldnt try anything with her, but I told her "well you know what they say about the quiet ones". She laughed, but now im in a situation though.
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Wow dude, you learned to flirt...
Now go jack off and ask her out on a date...
Guessing you have her number already...
 
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