"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Got a little ****y...now im in trouble

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Theres a friend of mine who just broke up with her bf. Shes been stressed because shes got other things going on. I was never really interested in having a relationship with her but shes cute so I definitely wouldn't mind fooling around with her. Anyway, she was tellin me she had a headache and joking around I said "well I could take care of that for you and help get your mind off it". I thought she would just laugh and say shut up or something joking around but she actually said "I might take you up on that". I couldnt believe it worked haha. She then tested me because i am normally a shy person and she thought I wouldnt try anything with her, but I told her "well you know what they say about the quiet ones". She laughed, but now im in a situation though.

We dont hang out all the time but we talked on the phone earlier and she said that we need to hang out so I cant take care of her headache because she hasnt forgotten about it. I know now that I can fool around with but the problem is, is that I talked like I had experience but in reality I am still a virgin. I dont know what Im going to do.....I mean i know what to do but its going to be bad...help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well if you don't want to be a virgin, go for it. Are you afraid of success? Come on man, grow some balls... it might be awkward but fortunately the learning curve is super steep and you'll be a natural only after a few times. I mean, it takes a LOT of sex to get really good (at least for me), but the two-pump chump phenomenon doesn't really last for awhile. You sorta get used to it.

If you're THAT concerned, go to a *****house... for real. I mean what else do you want... are you gonna complain that you're a virgin, or are you gonna complain that you can't have sex with a girl because you're a virgin?
 
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Vampire said:
Well if you don't want to be a virgin, go for it. Are you afraid of success? Come on man, grow some balls... it might be awkward but fortunately the learning curve is super steep and you'll be a natural only after a few times. I mean, it takes a LOT of sex to get really good (at least for me), but the two-pump chump phenomenon doesn't really last for awhile. You sorta get used to it.

If you're THAT concerned, go to a *****house... for real. I mean what else do you want... are you gonna complain that you're a virgin, or are you gonna complain that you can't have sex with a girl because you're a virgin?
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This post is right on the money.
 
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El Don said:
"well I could take care of that for you and help get your mind off it". I thought she would just laugh and say shut up or something joking around but she actually said "I might take you up on that". I couldnt believe it worked haha. She then tested me because i am normally a shy person and she thought I wouldnt try anything with her, but I told her "well you know what they say about the quiet ones". She laughed, but now im in a situation though.
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Wow dude, you learned to flirt...
Now go jack off and ask her out on a date...
Guessing you have her number already...
 
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