Got a job and most of my co-workers are hot girls. How would I go about gaming? (Continued)

[BPH]

What is the long game to you? Because if I don't up the ante at some point, they'll just lose interest and move on, single or not.

All you have to do is wait until somebody makes it easy for you. By "easy" I mean a legitimate invite somewhere else, outside of work hours, ideally alone or with a small handful of friends.

I'll give you an actual example, even though it's not the most transferable to your situation:

I was piss-drunk one night out with a friend a couple of years back. It was nearing closing time, and my friend pulled me over and told me this girl sitting next to him thinks I'm hot, and that I should talk to her.

I was so drunk that I peeked past him and saw her sitting down, but couldn't get much of an idea how she looked, so I drunkenly said, "I can't tell, is she hot?"

I was loud enough for her to overhear me, she laughed and responded, "Yes, I'm hot".

We ended up Ubering to her place shortly afterwards, and I banged her out a couple of times.

Like really don't jump on these women at your workplace unless you're absolutely certain she's giving you a lay-up.

 

[Oatmeal31]

All you have to do is wait until somebody makes it easy for you. By "easy" I mean a legitimate invite somewhere else, outside of work hours, ideally alone or with a small handful of friends.

I'll give you an actual example, even though it's not the most transferable to your situation:

I was piss-drunk one night out with a friend a couple of years back. It was nearing closing time, and my friend pulled me over and told me this girl sitting next to him thinks I'm hot, and that I should talk to her.

I was so drunk that I peeked past him and saw her sitting down, but couldn't get much of an idea how she looked, so I drunkenly said, "I can't tell, is she hot?"

I was loud enough for her to overhear me, she laughed and responded, "Yes, I'm hot".

We ended up Ubering to her place shortly afterwards, and I banged her out a couple of times.

Like really don't jump on these women at your workplace unless you're absolutely certain she's giving you a lay-up.

Women don't lead, ever. This is why girls and guys that are afraid to make moves develop work crushes and never act on them. I know you said it's not the most transferable but your friend led for her. He did the legwork for her

So that's why I find your advice a bit confusing. Now, I've been invited out by guy coworkers before, and I guess there'd be a chance that one of the girls goes too. But I'm not a chance guy. I don't like playing by chance

 

[BPH]

Women don't lead, ever. This is why girls and guys that are afraid to make moves develop work crushes and never act on them. I know you said it's not the most transferable but your friend led for her. He did the legwork for her

Yeah, but she made the move, indirect as it was.

You just need to have a little patience and recognize a lay-up if/when it happens. Otherwise, as with my initial advice, just do a good job, become a bartender, be a good bartender, and bang the hotties that become regulars to see you.

 

[Oatmeal31]

Yeah, but she made the move, indirect as it was.

You just need to have a little patience and recognize a lay-up if/when it happens. Otherwise, as with my initial advice, just do a good job, become a bartender, be a good bartender, and bang the hotties that become regulars to see you.

If your friend didn't exist in this scenario, would you have noticed her making a move? I get layups aka indicators of interest from other girls at work too. Only way to truly know is to make a move I feel

One of the hostesses orbits around me and said I'm her favorite the other day. But from experience, I didn't think that was a layup. I think she's a yellow light atm. I've approached at least a few hundred women on the street. I can instantly recognize weak/strong interest consistently.

So, this girl I made a move on was more of a green light than most of the others. How was she not a layup? Maybe she just got cold feet and pu$$ied out

But listen, I appreciate your advice because I have a sh!t success rate anyway Being a bartender will be the goal