"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got a hot girl's number who is a friend of mine.

Fleshy99

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Hey all,

Nice to be back.

So I got this hot girls number recently who is a friend of mine from college. She's friends with plenty of my good friends and have been for a longtime. We've known eachother for a while but she hasn't really noticed me until recently.

First about a month ago I overheard her say something to my friend along the lines of "hey, he looks a lot different" (I've been taking care of myself in the last year and getting in better shape)

So I picked up on it and decided to start getting to know her a bit, and see if it goes anywhere.

Saw her the other weekend gave her a hug and talked for a bit, small talk.

As I was leaving the convo went like this... (paraphrased)

"Hey, I've been meaning to meet up with (insert). Tell him I said 'what up?' "

"Oh yeah I'll let him know."

"...If you ever want to hangout sometime, maybe we could meet up. I know I'm not far from you..."

"Yeah, do you have my number?"

"No, whats your number?"

I get her number and she tells me "Give me a call"

Now obviously this is something I should continue to keep going with. I plan on calling her later this week closer to the weekend to maybe at least see what she's up to. I don't really know how to feel about this one because she's smokin hot, and she's a great person. Not really sure if this is a friend zone situation.
I've been really aggressive this whole time, and I don't mind being myself around her so I'm not too worried about going soft. I've just never had someone in my circle of friends take interest in me - doesn't feel like the usual were I'm meeting someone I don't know.

Any tips are helpful.

Thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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invite her to JOIN YOU for a drink at such & such bar. get some drinks into her, and kino away at her. Then make your move. dont act like a friend, make sure theres plenty of sexual tension. and... dont overtalk. keep some mystique
 

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You are on the friendzone border, tread carefully.

Be the new bad ass she thinks you are.
 

Fleshy99

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Alright, got an update:

Gave her a call. She basically has my number now, and said she would like to hangout when I asked her about it.

Told me she would look into her schedule, she told me possibly saturday night. Otherwise she would be getting her schedule soon, and she would let me know.

Pretty excited, but I'm gonna keep a cool head. I've got alot of things of my plate right now to worry about so it seems thats saving me from seeming too desperate.

Gotta keep busy fellas.
 
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