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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got a hot girl's number who is a friend of mine.

Fleshy99

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Hey all,

Nice to be back.

So I got this hot girls number recently who is a friend of mine from college. She's friends with plenty of my good friends and have been for a longtime. We've known eachother for a while but she hasn't really noticed me until recently.

First about a month ago I overheard her say something to my friend along the lines of "hey, he looks a lot different" (I've been taking care of myself in the last year and getting in better shape)

So I picked up on it and decided to start getting to know her a bit, and see if it goes anywhere.

Saw her the other weekend gave her a hug and talked for a bit, small talk.

As I was leaving the convo went like this... (paraphrased)

"Hey, I've been meaning to meet up with (insert). Tell him I said 'what up?' "

"Oh yeah I'll let him know."

"...If you ever want to hangout sometime, maybe we could meet up. I know I'm not far from you..."

"Yeah, do you have my number?"

"No, whats your number?"

I get her number and she tells me "Give me a call"

Now obviously this is something I should continue to keep going with. I plan on calling her later this week closer to the weekend to maybe at least see what she's up to. I don't really know how to feel about this one because she's smokin hot, and she's a great person. Not really sure if this is a friend zone situation.
I've been really aggressive this whole time, and I don't mind being myself around her so I'm not too worried about going soft. I've just never had someone in my circle of friends take interest in me - doesn't feel like the usual were I'm meeting someone I don't know.

Any tips are helpful.

Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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Joe Stud

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invite her to JOIN YOU for a drink at such & such bar. get some drinks into her, and kino away at her. Then make your move. dont act like a friend, make sure theres plenty of sexual tension. and... dont overtalk. keep some mystique
 

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You are on the friendzone border, tread carefully.

Be the new bad ass she thinks you are.
 

Fleshy99

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Alright, got an update:

Gave her a call. She basically has my number now, and said she would like to hangout when I asked her about it.

Told me she would look into her schedule, she told me possibly saturday night. Otherwise she would be getting her schedule soon, and she would let me know.

Pretty excited, but I'm gonna keep a cool head. I've got alot of things of my plate right now to worry about so it seems thats saving me from seeming too desperate.

Gotta keep busy fellas.
 
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