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Got a Hot girls # but forgot her NAME!! How can I setup a date W/ HER !!!

toot86

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Ok so I get this girls # at this club I went to she was hot and was all into me we got to fooling around and frenching... but after awhile i went to get a drink and lost her.. But then I saw her again and told her to give me her# so we could get together .. She asked if ihad a g/f i said not really" then she gave me her # but while she told me her name while i was entering the #.. IN my cell I forgot to put her name in it as well ..

So now its the 3rd day and How should I setup a get together when I dont know who iam calling for??


Should I say hey can I speak to the hot girl .. I talked to in the club?

What if her mom answers


But maybe she gave me her cell I dont know .. Either way what should i do...
 

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Why don't you try reverse lookup on the internet. That way if the number is in her name then you home free.:)
 

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Dang, forgetting a girl's name is almost sure to screw your chances.

I wouldn't know what to do that would certainly work... maybe you could go back to the club at the same time the following week, and perhaps she'll be there?

Maybe attempt a SMS if it's a cell phone? Text her with, "hey, it's toot86 from the club... I'm at a church meeting [or some bullshyt place where you reasonably be expected not to call], gimme a call when you have the time?" If she calls, don't pick up and let her leave a message.

I'm just throwing out suggestions here... none of this is tried and true.
 

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try this

scenerio


phone rings

you: hey there its john i met you at the club last weekend

her: o ya hey whatsup?

you: chat for a bit

her: chatting

you: hey by the way whats your name?

her: megan how could you have forgotten my name

you: i know your name is megan silly i meant i dint get your last name...

her: oh its smith, that makes me feel better i though you forgot my name..


see with this you win an do a little reverse psychology.......
 

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Have a buddy call from a pay phone and say -

Her: Hello

Buddy: This is Bob, who's this?

Her: Sally. Bob who?

Buddy: Sorry - wrong number.
 

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I have done the same thing before!
I asked a friend if he could remember her name, he said it was "Melissa", i call her up, i recognised her voice when she answered so i know it was her so i just started letting her guess who i was :)

Anyway..conversation progresses and she quoted her sis saying "come on Chel" - long story short, her named ended up being Michelle, not Melissa! But hey, if i did call her by a wrong name, it would have been Funnnny :D

But hey, if you recognise her voice there's no need to know her name. If worst comes to worst -get her out, just get a friend to introduce himself to her / ask her name.
 

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Re: try this

Originally posted by glowstix
scenerio


phone rings

you: hey there its john i met you at the club last weekend

her: o ya hey whatsup?

you: chat for a bit

her: chatting

you: hey by the way whats your name?

her: megan how could you have forgotten my name

you: i know your name is megan silly i meant i dint get your last name...

her: oh its smith, that makes me feel better i though you forgot my name..


see with this you win an do a little reverse psychology.......

PERFECT!!! I'm keep'N this in my head. U need a good level of confidence to pull this off - so u don't sound to phony. Plus just hope she doesn't get all mad N hang up on you without u get'N a chance to explain yourself. Or she gets mad N confronts u without EVER say'N her name - therefore u can't pull it off.

:D
GHOST
 

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Re: Re: try this

Originally posted by Dee-Zy
PERFECT!!! I'm keep'N this in my head. U need a good level of confidence to pull this off - so u don't sound to phony. Plus just hope she doesn't get all mad N hang up on you without u get'N a chance to explain yourself. Or she gets mad N confronts u without EVER say'N her name - therefore u can't pull it off.

:D
GHOST


Yeah but what If her roomate picks up or worst case scenario her MOM!!! ...


Hello..

Hey yeah its toot86 i met you at the club ..


Mom - I Think you have me mistaken I didint go to a club

Toot86- Oh yeah then its was your hot daughter can I speak to her..


Mom - No my daughter couldnt of been at the club she was at her friends studying for a church presentation on sunday...(thinks to herself maybe she snuck out and did go to the clubs)
Sorry you got the wrong #(Hangs UP)


Mom- Getting mad at her daughter for lying to her


I dont know it could work.. I like the call from a payphone idea but she still could find out its the guy from the club...
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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if it's a cell, more often than not, a girl won't answer anyway, and you can hear her name in her message. Call from a friend's phone or a payphone just in case she answers and you need to ask for (INSERT MALE NAME) and then have the "wrong number".
 

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if it's a cell, more often than not, a girl won't answer anyway, and you can hear her name in her message. Call from a friend's phone or a payphone just in case she answers and you need to ask for (INSERT MALE NAME) and then have the "wrong number".
Now that is the way to do it! It is probably the best idea. Peeps always say their name on their voice message and call at a time that you are most likely to get it.

If you feel charitable and would like to offer more great ideas see my thread Home Dates & Fun Ideas but hurry; there are so many responses that it may begin to choke forum.
 

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Pre-emptive strike

If I'm talking with a gal some place there's music playing, and it occurs to me that her name slips my mind, I just ask her name again, and tell her music jams my name recollection circuitry -- it does! And I always make sure her name is written down when I get her info.

Usually, in fact, I tell her about the effect of music right as I get her name, and relate a funny little ancedote about talking with someone about an album I'd listened to a hundred times, but couldn't remember the title of the album, having instead to describe the album cover. Then repeat her name out loud several times. Make a joke of it, before any faux pas. That works very well.

***********

Very crafty idea, glowstix. Must remember that if I forget my pre-emptive strategy.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

P

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hmm

i had this problem. met this chick at the movies mad dope. got the number called her like 9 days later. call up and ask for the wrong name. worst part was.. the name i asked for was her 10 year old sister. so after a few hangups when the pre-teen and her mother answered the phone, i called and asked if there was someone in high school in the house. it ended up being that girl and she had been informed that I was asking for the wrong person. I was basically just told her the truth, that i had forgotten her name. It might have soured things a bit, but i knew i had her because she had remembered my name.

I dont know man in your situation id just straight guess on whos answering the phone. if it sounds like an old person, id say some **** like is your daugter home, your in her class bla bla. make some bull**** up. if someone younger picks up you'll be straight. ****, if the person sounds young enough id just ask them if it was them. whatever, nothing to lose cept one chick who youll never see again
 

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GREAT NEWS AND BAD NEWS

Ok I called and Guess what I did .. Or what happend.. I called and a man answerd and I said.. Who is this .. He said Garret and I said oops wrong # then he said are you calling for Jenny .. Then I said Yes is she in .. Then he said yeah just wait up she is coming ..


So she answers I say hows it been she says good how about you.. Then I tell her so where exactly are you from .. Then I say iam from so and so .. and she says dang thats like 40 minutes away from my house.. Then I started to say so you sounded pretty cool in the club so you go out alot?

Then she said hey can I call you in 20 miniutes and then I said yea .And then I hanged up..


Guess what she didint call


Is it becuase I didint mention my #

But it could of been Recorded on her phone..


What should I do.. Never encountered this situation b4
 

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yell out "AFC baby!" and run in circles.

haha, why the hell would u agree to her calling back?
What you should have said was "nah, its ok, ill call you back"
Id give her a ring in 2-3 days, ask her out , if she gives any excuse and doesnt follow up with a counter offer, then cross and next.
 

toot86

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Originally posted by Oxide
yell out "AFC baby!" and run in circles.

haha, why the hell would u agree to her calling back?
What you should have said was "nah, its ok, ill call you back"
Id give her a ring in 2-3 days, ask her out , if she gives any excuse and doesnt follow up with a counter offer, then cross and next.
True .. But its just that I didint give it much thought.. Hey ok so Now that I made a mistake .. What should i do to try to improve it>?
 

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