"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Got a girl's # who's clearly interested in me! But she didn't answer? WTF?

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First thread posted in about 4 months.

I met this chick who displayed high IL by asking if I was single and eventually kissed my neck. There was other body language the girl used to show interest in me beyond the friend zone. We exchanged #'s and everything seemed cool. Then I called to meet up and the phone goes to voicemail after ringing 5 times.

WTF happened? Something tells me this girl was an attention wh0re or a d!cktease.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How long did you wait before calling her? She might just be busy...girls have things to do during the day besides sit around waiting for a random guy to call/text her.
 
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JCballin88 said:
How long did you wait before calling her? She might just be busy...girls have things to do during the day besides sit around waiting for a random guy to call/text her.
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1.5 days and I was busy myself in a recording studio. I won't tell her this verbatum since it turns most chicks into golddiggers.
 
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Who knows. I once danced and made out heavy with a girl in a club. Can't get any better IOI than that. The club was about to close, got her number as she's leaving, called her up the following evening to say hi and she never returned my call. Gave it a try a few more days later. No luck. At that point I knew she wasn't going to call back but said screw it, I'll send her a text message saying what's up. No reply.

You could drive yourself nuts worrying about why girls are so irrational, but it's not worth the trouble. Just accept the fact that it wasn't meant to be and move on. I was being AFC by trying 3 times to contact her. These days, I call once, leave a message. If she doesn't call me back within the day then f*ck her.
 
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I met this chick who displayed high IL by asking if I was single and eventually kissed my neck.
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Or, she was just playing with you because you were the closest guy. There is no such thing as "clear" interest from a female. Even if she says: " I would like you to fvck me tonight" it still isn't set in stone, nor does it mean that is what she actually wanted. Even after you have sex with her, she still might not consider that a display of interest-- she might have just wanted you for a few hours and thats it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dude.. may be she is BUSY?

how about you call again later.
 
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Maybe she was eaten by an alligator and will never call you back.

Maybe she was busy getting railed by some dude and couldn't answer the phone.

It could have been nap time.

Ringer could have been off

Phone was eaten by toilet last night

she don't like you

Phone in locker at gym

She was on the john.


Who cares, stop stressing.
 
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