"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Got a first close for number, whats next?

Canadien

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so, Yesterday, I started talking to this hb8, and all of a sudden we realized bus wasn't coming so, we started walk to home, and along the way we had very good rapport for around 20 minutes, and then finally I got her Phone number and MSN...
I think the interest level is high, but there are some big problems.. She's very good at French and I'm very good at English,
we are both trying to improve the other aspect, so what kind of date would be a good start? and How long should I wait? should I wait to make plans for next weekend? Is going to Cafe ok for first date? or should I ask for something more?

Is it ok to call her up soon? What kind of expectation should I make the call with?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Canadien said:
She's very good at French and I'm very good at English,
we are both trying to improve the other aspect
Sounds pretty obvious if you ask me. Call her when you want, just make sure you have a few things to talk about, set up a date.
 

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Canadien said:
so, Yesterday, I started talking to this hb8, and all of a sudden we realized bus wasn't coming so, we started walk to home, and along the way we had very good rapport for around 20 minutes, and then finally I got her Phone number and MSN...
I think the interest level is high, but there are some big problems.. She's very good at French and I'm very good at English,
we are both trying to improve the other aspect, so what kind of date would be a good start? and How long should I wait? should I wait to make plans for next weekend? Is going to Cafe ok for first date? or should I ask for something more?

Is it ok to call her up soon? What kind of expectation should I make the call with?
Text Her: How do you write Your sexy in French?

When she answers,

Text it back to her in French.
 

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So again

I closed the phone part yesterday too, today we'r going to watch a movie and maybe a dinner... This is my first ever date, do you guys have any outstanding tips?
 

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GET A LIFE...........its just a chic.......theres like a bazillion of them out there.

forget movie.......go play pool, air hocky, do something fun where you can sneak kino in, a kiss, be silly, teach her some english, then FRENCH with her.

Always leave her wanting more..........but if you make her your life eventually she will say get a life.

Dont do date marathons........1 day a movie, next time dinner....why do U need to fill her every free moment in one day. Give her time to miss you.

Why are spending your hard earned cash on this chic.....say this...."I get the tickets if you get the drinks/popcorn".

PLAYING GAMES (pool, bowling, air hockey, mini-golf, etc) say LOSER buys the next round. OR play for kisses......loser has to kiss the winner.

Meet her after DINNER TIME--to avoid paying for her affection

Do dates that are free or low cost....too many to list

M
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey again

COD said:
GET A LIFE...........its just a chic.......theres like a bazillion of them out there.

forget movie.......go play pool, air hocky, do something fun where you can sneak kino in, a kiss, be silly, teach her some english, then FRENCH with her.

Always leave her wanting more..........but if you make her your life eventually she will say get a life.

Dont do date marathons........1 day a movie, next time dinner....why do U need to fill her every free moment in one day. Give her time to miss you.

Why are spending your hard earned cash on this chic.....say this...."I get the tickets if you get the drinks/popcorn".

PLAYING GAMES (pool, bowling, air hockey, mini-golf, etc) say LOSER buys the next round. OR play for kisses......loser has to kiss the winner.

Meet her after DINNER TIME--to avoid paying for her affection

Do dates that are free or low cost....too many to list

M
thanks for the popcorn and drinks idea, I'll surely try to use that...For me this is first ever date, so I want to take the easy way out, but once I find out about her interests I'll surely push for recreational activities.....
 
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