"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Got a first close for number, whats next?

Canadien

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so, Yesterday, I started talking to this hb8, and all of a sudden we realized bus wasn't coming so, we started walk to home, and along the way we had very good rapport for around 20 minutes, and then finally I got her Phone number and MSN...
I think the interest level is high, but there are some big problems.. She's very good at French and I'm very good at English,
we are both trying to improve the other aspect, so what kind of date would be a good start? and How long should I wait? should I wait to make plans for next weekend? Is going to Cafe ok for first date? or should I ask for something more?

Is it ok to call her up soon? What kind of expectation should I make the call with?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dannyrt34

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Canadien said:
She's very good at French and I'm very good at English,
we are both trying to improve the other aspect
Sounds pretty obvious if you ask me. Call her when you want, just make sure you have a few things to talk about, set up a date.
 

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Canadien said:
so, Yesterday, I started talking to this hb8, and all of a sudden we realized bus wasn't coming so, we started walk to home, and along the way we had very good rapport for around 20 minutes, and then finally I got her Phone number and MSN...
I think the interest level is high, but there are some big problems.. She's very good at French and I'm very good at English,
we are both trying to improve the other aspect, so what kind of date would be a good start? and How long should I wait? should I wait to make plans for next weekend? Is going to Cafe ok for first date? or should I ask for something more?

Is it ok to call her up soon? What kind of expectation should I make the call with?
Text Her: How do you write Your sexy in French?

When she answers,

Text it back to her in French.
 

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So again

I closed the phone part yesterday too, today we'r going to watch a movie and maybe a dinner... This is my first ever date, do you guys have any outstanding tips?
 

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GET A LIFE...........its just a chic.......theres like a bazillion of them out there.

forget movie.......go play pool, air hocky, do something fun where you can sneak kino in, a kiss, be silly, teach her some english, then FRENCH with her.

Always leave her wanting more..........but if you make her your life eventually she will say get a life.

Dont do date marathons........1 day a movie, next time dinner....why do U need to fill her every free moment in one day. Give her time to miss you.

Why are spending your hard earned cash on this chic.....say this...."I get the tickets if you get the drinks/popcorn".

PLAYING GAMES (pool, bowling, air hockey, mini-golf, etc) say LOSER buys the next round. OR play for kisses......loser has to kiss the winner.

Meet her after DINNER TIME--to avoid paying for her affection

Do dates that are free or low cost....too many to list

M
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hey again

COD said:
GET A LIFE...........its just a chic.......theres like a bazillion of them out there.

forget movie.......go play pool, air hocky, do something fun where you can sneak kino in, a kiss, be silly, teach her some english, then FRENCH with her.

Always leave her wanting more..........but if you make her your life eventually she will say get a life.

Dont do date marathons........1 day a movie, next time dinner....why do U need to fill her every free moment in one day. Give her time to miss you.

Why are spending your hard earned cash on this chic.....say this...."I get the tickets if you get the drinks/popcorn".

PLAYING GAMES (pool, bowling, air hockey, mini-golf, etc) say LOSER buys the next round. OR play for kisses......loser has to kiss the winner.

Meet her after DINNER TIME--to avoid paying for her affection

Do dates that are free or low cost....too many to list

M
thanks for the popcorn and drinks idea, I'll surely try to use that...For me this is first ever date, so I want to take the easy way out, but once I find out about her interests I'll surely push for recreational activities.....
 
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