"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Got a few dates set up from POF...how to play it?

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Between going out Thursday-Sunday to bars/clubs during the week I have been hitting up POF. Using (Naughty Ninjas) guideline on profile info, putting my best pictures up, and coming up with funny clever ice breaker first messages, I recently started getting a lot of responses.

I have 2 upcoming dates set up. The one chick is 18, and the other is 22. I set up dates to get some drinks at a local bar. (The 18 year old has a fake) Now obviously you can't take the women from POF as some serious meaningful pursuit, but to go out and have a good time, and try to get laid is my goal.

Since I met them online. Should I stick with my regular game of everything I would normally do if I met them in person? Escalating Kino, keeping it light fun and sexual etc.

Any pointers on making it easier to transition from the bar to my apartment? I am trying to avoid having to take her out a few times to get it in.

Thanks guys, any advice would be greatly appreciated!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If the 18 year old has a fake id, how do you know she's really 18?
 
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Asterisk said:
If the 18 year old has a fake id, how do you know she's really 18?
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This!

And I always try to have things to do at my crib. Always have stuff to drink/smoke/watch. Maybe a cheesy excuse to go home, then invite her in to show her the place. Sometimes i'll say I don't really dig the place were at and suggest we bounce. Take her to places close to your place so it's convenient and the idea of stopping by real quick makes sense. Forget your wallet at home? Got a call from work you have to get on your computer quick.
 
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You sound like you are into slutty low quality women so I have no advice for you
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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