"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Got a few dates set up from POF...how to play it?

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Between going out Thursday-Sunday to bars/clubs during the week I have been hitting up POF. Using (Naughty Ninjas) guideline on profile info, putting my best pictures up, and coming up with funny clever ice breaker first messages, I recently started getting a lot of responses.

I have 2 upcoming dates set up. The one chick is 18, and the other is 22. I set up dates to get some drinks at a local bar. (The 18 year old has a fake) Now obviously you can't take the women from POF as some serious meaningful pursuit, but to go out and have a good time, and try to get laid is my goal.

Since I met them online. Should I stick with my regular game of everything I would normally do if I met them in person? Escalating Kino, keeping it light fun and sexual etc.

Any pointers on making it easier to transition from the bar to my apartment? I am trying to avoid having to take her out a few times to get it in.

Thanks guys, any advice would be greatly appreciated!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If the 18 year old has a fake id, how do you know she's really 18?
 
SgtSplacker

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Asterisk said:
If the 18 year old has a fake id, how do you know she's really 18?
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This!

And I always try to have things to do at my crib. Always have stuff to drink/smoke/watch. Maybe a cheesy excuse to go home, then invite her in to show her the place. Sometimes i'll say I don't really dig the place were at and suggest we bounce. Take her to places close to your place so it's convenient and the idea of stopping by real quick makes sense. Forget your wallet at home? Got a call from work you have to get on your computer quick.
 
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You sound like you are into slutty low quality women so I have no advice for you
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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