"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Got a few dates set up from POF...how to play it?

spiegel549

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Between going out Thursday-Sunday to bars/clubs during the week I have been hitting up POF. Using (Naughty Ninjas) guideline on profile info, putting my best pictures up, and coming up with funny clever ice breaker first messages, I recently started getting a lot of responses.

I have 2 upcoming dates set up. The one chick is 18, and the other is 22. I set up dates to get some drinks at a local bar. (The 18 year old has a fake) Now obviously you can't take the women from POF as some serious meaningful pursuit, but to go out and have a good time, and try to get laid is my goal.

Since I met them online. Should I stick with my regular game of everything I would normally do if I met them in person? Escalating Kino, keeping it light fun and sexual etc.

Any pointers on making it easier to transition from the bar to my apartment? I am trying to avoid having to take her out a few times to get it in.

Thanks guys, any advice would be greatly appreciated!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Asterisk

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If the 18 year old has a fake id, how do you know she's really 18?
 

SgtSplacker

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Asterisk said:
If the 18 year old has a fake id, how do you know she's really 18?
This!

And I always try to have things to do at my crib. Always have stuff to drink/smoke/watch. Maybe a cheesy excuse to go home, then invite her in to show her the place. Sometimes i'll say I don't really dig the place were at and suggest we bounce. Take her to places close to your place so it's convenient and the idea of stopping by real quick makes sense. Forget your wallet at home? Got a call from work you have to get on your computer quick.
 

georgetheman

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You sound like you are into slutty low quality women so I have no advice for you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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