"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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got a date for next tuesday night.

quest

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hey fella's.
got a date with the girl who kind of sent me to this site.
i was dating her, had about 3 dates where i was dead boring and she gave me the ass.

anyway, i don't want to go out with her (boyfriend/girlfriend) style. but i wouldn't mind getting her into bed. but i've talked myself up saying that she'll have fun no matter the situation.

the first date i had with her was TERRIBLE! saw 'the hulk' and it was DEAD boring. i didn't kiss her until right at her house after everything had finished. and even then she virtually had to tell me it was ok.

i won't have that problem this time.

but i'm thinking action date, rather then movies or dinner. and i've never had an action date before.
since it'll be dark i'm thinking bowling would be better then mini golf..

but i've been running over it in my head, how can i make bowling fun for her, she'll bowl, i'll bowl, she'll bowl, i'll bowl. she'll probably be terrible, i'm pretty good, should nail 150+.

if she's really bad i can joke with her and try and instruct her a bit "i'll tell the lady to put the bumpers on" etc.

i can see how it would be a good double date, quite a bit of time to talk between bowls.

.. anyone who has done some bowling dates, i need some tips.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DeathDealer

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worrying too much is the death of a dj and the beginning of an afc.
 

quest

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i'm not worrying too much..
i'm looking forward to it..

just curious of what others who have done that for a date would do..
few idea's... u know?

if i get no helpful replys, i'll be sweet. i'll take her bowling and i'll work my game.

i have no doubt in my mind the date will go well, and i'll get another..
(but dates aren't really what a i want, i want some punani :))
 

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i would tease her looking at my ass when its my turn.
 

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You know whats funny when you go bowling.. I do this everytime.

When its her turn to go, you know usually the chick is not really paying that much attention unless she's a bowling FREAK!! Run up, grab any bowl, and cover your eyes while you just dump the bowl straight in the gutter! **** is so funny!!!

Also, I usually will make a bet with a girl on the game like loser buys drinks or sexual favors if you guys are allready dating.

GL man just concentrate on your fun rather than what she is thinking!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fenderules

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lol good idea, i just might do that. Lol i do that with pool all the time as a joke.
 

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Just aim to have fun - high five a lot, hide her shoes, do what Fenderules said, if you get a gutter ball tell her you did it to let her catch up because shes so crap, you get the idea.

Once when I had a bowling date with a girl we played a little dare game. I dared her to take some guys ball to use herself (He had been using the same one....hahah he let her without a question because she was a girl).

Then she dared me to order something crazy from the cafe with a straight face. Lastly I dared her to walk up to an open bag of some people's chips and eat some. She loved it.
 
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