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The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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got a date for next tuesday night.

quest

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hey fella's.
got a date with the girl who kind of sent me to this site.
i was dating her, had about 3 dates where i was dead boring and she gave me the ass.

anyway, i don't want to go out with her (boyfriend/girlfriend) style. but i wouldn't mind getting her into bed. but i've talked myself up saying that she'll have fun no matter the situation.

the first date i had with her was TERRIBLE! saw 'the hulk' and it was DEAD boring. i didn't kiss her until right at her house after everything had finished. and even then she virtually had to tell me it was ok.

i won't have that problem this time.

but i'm thinking action date, rather then movies or dinner. and i've never had an action date before.
since it'll be dark i'm thinking bowling would be better then mini golf..

but i've been running over it in my head, how can i make bowling fun for her, she'll bowl, i'll bowl, she'll bowl, i'll bowl. she'll probably be terrible, i'm pretty good, should nail 150+.

if she's really bad i can joke with her and try and instruct her a bit "i'll tell the lady to put the bumpers on" etc.

i can see how it would be a good double date, quite a bit of time to talk between bowls.

.. anyone who has done some bowling dates, i need some tips.
 

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DeathDealer

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worrying too much is the death of a dj and the beginning of an afc.
 

quest

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i'm not worrying too much..
i'm looking forward to it..

just curious of what others who have done that for a date would do..
few idea's... u know?

if i get no helpful replys, i'll be sweet. i'll take her bowling and i'll work my game.

i have no doubt in my mind the date will go well, and i'll get another..
(but dates aren't really what a i want, i want some punani :))
 

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i would tease her looking at my ass when its my turn.
 

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You know whats funny when you go bowling.. I do this everytime.

When its her turn to go, you know usually the chick is not really paying that much attention unless she's a bowling FREAK!! Run up, grab any bowl, and cover your eyes while you just dump the bowl straight in the gutter! **** is so funny!!!

Also, I usually will make a bet with a girl on the game like loser buys drinks or sexual favors if you guys are allready dating.

GL man just concentrate on your fun rather than what she is thinking!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol good idea, i just might do that. Lol i do that with pool all the time as a joke.
 

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Just aim to have fun - high five a lot, hide her shoes, do what Fenderules said, if you get a gutter ball tell her you did it to let her catch up because shes so crap, you get the idea.

Once when I had a bowling date with a girl we played a little dare game. I dared her to take some guys ball to use herself (He had been using the same one....hahah he let her without a question because she was a girl).

Then she dared me to order something crazy from the cafe with a straight face. Lastly I dared her to walk up to an open bag of some people's chips and eat some. She loved it.
 
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