"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got a chicks number, when should I call?

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So yesterday my friend and were walking down the street and we saw these two 8's. We approached, (actually he approached), and one of the chicks said that she wanted to talk to mean. I went up to her, asked her a couple of questions and got the number in less than a minute :crazy: How long should I wait till I call her? And typically, what should I talk to her about? It was strange.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First read the bible, but from personal opinion.
1. Call whenever you want.
2. Only call with a reason or purpose in mind, no fluff talking to see how she is.
3. Dont talk more than the amount of time you can have sex, keep it 5-10mins.
 
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Everyone has their own take on this question. Mine is wait 5 days, don't call on Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. When you get her on the phone, set the date up - no fluff. You don't sell on the phone, you sell in person.

Although for a girl that seemed that interested in you, I'd probably call in a day or two. If I'm not sure how interested they are in me I'll wait longer...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bussey

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Well the principle I've always gone on is to pretend 100 women call you every day.

So day 1 you'd be like 'Oh her, yea I'll call her this week.'

Day 2 "Hmm, oh right her. Well, maybe tomorrow.'

Day 3 "I'll give her a call if I'm not busy today."

Day 4 "Ah, I gotta call her, she was cute *Dial*"

Just whenever you want to call is your own choice.
 
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