"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got a chicks number, when should I call?

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So yesterday my friend and were walking down the street and we saw these two 8's. We approached, (actually he approached), and one of the chicks said that she wanted to talk to mean. I went up to her, asked her a couple of questions and got the number in less than a minute :crazy: How long should I wait till I call her? And typically, what should I talk to her about? It was strange.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First read the bible, but from personal opinion.
1. Call whenever you want.
2. Only call with a reason or purpose in mind, no fluff talking to see how she is.
3. Dont talk more than the amount of time you can have sex, keep it 5-10mins.
 
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Everyone has their own take on this question. Mine is wait 5 days, don't call on Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. When you get her on the phone, set the date up - no fluff. You don't sell on the phone, you sell in person.

Although for a girl that seemed that interested in you, I'd probably call in a day or two. If I'm not sure how interested they are in me I'll wait longer...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well the principle I've always gone on is to pretend 100 women call you every day.

So day 1 you'd be like 'Oh her, yea I'll call her this week.'

Day 2 "Hmm, oh right her. Well, maybe tomorrow.'

Day 3 "I'll give her a call if I'm not busy today."

Day 4 "Ah, I gotta call her, she was cute *Dial*"

Just whenever you want to call is your own choice.
 
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