From someone who is experiencing the pain of not cutting his losses earlier I just want to comment on how right on this advice is. There is nothing closer to mental poison than allowing yourself to get dragged through the dirt by a girl that doesn't genuinely want to be with you. Protect your confidence and self-esteem at all costs. I'm not saying to cut things off in this case, but be careful.reset said:I have to disagree with you there. Play this one out and see what happens. But in general, there's nothing worse than allowing yourself to be played and strung along, especially if you know what's happening.
You actually get more from cutting your losses and walking away from a girl who is playing you. It reinforces your confidence, you know that one girl isn't everything and your time is better spent with women who want to be with you. Then when the next one comes along it gets easier to establish your own frame immediately and not get drawn into hers.
Good luck in any case.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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