“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Got 3 numbers and an invite

skinnyguy

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Alright guys. Went out tonight and got 3 numbers. That part is whatever.

What is interesting is that the girl I have liked for 3 months invited me to her bday party. I've dated girls since then but none are like her. I have two options:

1) be aggressive and try to get her on a one on one date

2) act aloof and create the perception that I have an abundance if women

What should I do? Advice is appreciated.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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What is your history with her??
 

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Rainman4707 said:
What is your history with her??
I met her at a meetup event a while back. I have friends in the meetup, and she became friends with them too. Overall, she is top tier and not an AW. A very rare find in this generation.

She Facebook requested me and since then we've been talking here and there. I've never hooked up with her.
 

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Yes go for what you want.
 
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