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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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What do you think of being goofy and acting dumb sometimes to get laughs? I do this a lot... I started doing it when I was young because I thought I was boring and wanted to be more fun. Now, a lot of people think I'm weird/stupid when I act goofy, but a lot of people also think I'm funny. What do girls think of goofy people? If it's bad how would you go about changing?
 

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It could go either way. If you act like your trying to get their approval then STOP. If your doing it so for YOU, so you have fun than its great.

GIve examples, being "goofy" is just to general.
 
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Alright, well... in my Ceramics class there is this girl that was eating this really weird looking food. This girl is my friend and I'm not really interested her but I often act ****y and funny with her. WHen I asked her what that food was, she jokingly replied "your momma". so as a joke, i said beth why are you being so spunky (that word acutally sounds really funny when spoken)? and a lot of my friends thought it was funny and she laughed too but she shook her head a little and i can tell she thought it was kind of weird. Yeah... that kind of stuff
 

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spunky (that word acutally sounds really funny when spoken)


no it dont, it sounds like a dog name
or somthing
 

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Goofy is aite sometimes...but too goofy and girls will only see you as a clown
 

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Originally posted by i am me
Goofy is aite sometimes...but too goofy and girls will only see you as a clown
Yeah, just use CF. You will just come off as a joke, and this makes keno harder too because the girls probly just thing you are joking. If you want to take on the silly dude roll you really have to make the joke only for yourself, and get really good timing.
 
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Originally posted by Good_Vibes
Yeah, just use CF. You will just come off as a joke, and this makes keno harder too because the girls probly just thing you are joking. If you want to take on the silly dude roll you really have to make the joke only for yourself, and get really good timing.
Can you explain what you mean by making the joke for myself?
 

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I'm a junior in highschool
one monday after a long weekend my teacher goe s"why are you all so tired??"
I wne t"we got a lot on our minds. you know, puberty and such"
that got a lotta laughs lol. guess tiw as the way I said it.
but is that "goofy"?
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
I'm a junior in highschool
one monday after a long weekend my teacher goe s"why are you all so tired??"
I wne t"we got a lot on our minds. you know, puberty and such"
that got a lotta laughs lol. guess tiw as the way I said it.
but is that "goofy"?
haha yea i say stupid stuff like this all the time, is that good or bad for the girls?
Like im always fooling around and having a good time but I know when to be serious is that ok?
 

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Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
Can you explain what you mean by making the joke for myself?
What I mean is that you arn't being too dependent with your joke cracking, and the only reason you make a joke is to amuse yourself and your are clearly not trying to get anyone's acceptance by making them laugh. Follow?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't be the class clown, be the guy who makes funny / witty comments every once and a while.

If you act too goofy, girls see you as entertainment rather than attractive.
 

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Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
Alright, well... in my Ceramics class there is this girl that was eating this really weird looking food. This girl is my friend and I'm not really interested her but I often act ****y and funny with her. WHen I asked her what that food was, she jokingly replied "your momma". so as a joke, i said beth why are you being so spunky (that word acutally sounds really funny when spoken)? and a lot of my friends thought it was funny and she laughed too but she shook her head a little and i can tell she thought it was kind of weird. Yeah... that kind of stuff
thats the worst joke i've ever heard.
 

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if ur out for a few laughs, be a goof, go ahead, but if u want to succeed in building attraction w/ woman, unless your busting her balls in a funny way , keep the retarded comments to a minimum. I manage to make girls laugh no prob. and the **** i say sint even that funny. ( hint, if girl laughes at **** you say when ur totally being serious; she feels attraction toword u ) . but seriously, cut the bull****, if u wanna make her laugh, do it the right way.
 

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the coolest guy i know never cracks jokes in a proper way... he's funny in the way that in a big crowd he says to the guy next to him "oh i got a big one" and lets a fart out so that the other guy is the only one who can hear it... doesn't sound funny, but you should see him (well, smell him)

furthermore, he's the one that while asked something by a teacher, turns his head to a mate and makes a really scared face, without the teacher noticing

he also draws on his school-desk big d1cks and immature stuff like that, or writes idiot stories on other guys' diaries

he may sound to you as a total goof, but he actually is not:
this guy plays rugby and he's pretty built and strong, in fact when somebody jokingly insults him, he "playfully" punches his arm or pushes him away... i've seen lots of guys with haematomas because of him:)

he has been seen grabbing by the collar a pusher who was trying to sell him bad stuff... i mean, he's extremely funny but he also has a big reputation and is really respected, so nobody tries to call him a goofy...


he also rarely goes out with his classmates (he has friends outside of his class), but when he accepts an invitation, he makes the party going, since he brings weed, music and everybody relies on him to have fun


one thing that just came to my mind is that he NEVER acts this stupid with girls, because he actually doesn't consider them... not that he pretends not to see the hot girl next to him, it's like he doesn't see any girl in school, he just approaches hot babes at the club, but in school he spends his whole time with other guys
 

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You called her "spunky" because she said "your momma".....try again.:down:
 
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