"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Goodbye my fellow DJs (for now!)... Ill post reports...

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silverwex

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Hey guys,

Right this is my last day here (at home in Ireland!).

Im heading over to England for at least 2 months initally hoping to gain more confidence and kick start my approach skills with the ladies!

Ive been on this site for nearly a year and it has helped me but I havent put much into practice so getting away from my normal routine may prove to be a catalyst for all the stuff ive learned/read.

Wish me luck on my travels and Ill try my best to post reports (in regard to women!) whenever I can.

If any of you have any tips on how to adjust to a new location please feel free to post them below.

For now... Goodbye and thanks a million for the support you have given me to kick my AFC habits for good!

Cheers guys! :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yea good luck to u and we r looking forward to hear from u again
 
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