"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Goodbye and good luck to you all!

eaglez1177

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Well my friends, I am officially a college man! Just got down here to JMU a few days ago, and its awesome!

Anyways, I just wanted to wish you all the best of luck in everything you do here on SS and out in the field. Never give up, and remember that what you put in to improving yourself is what you will get out. I really wish I could say more but unfortunatley I've been very short on time lately between orientation, new friends, etc.

I'll still stop by here every now and then, so I'll cya all soon!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NorwegianDJ

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Have fun at college man! A lot of people here on the HS forum owes you a great thanks, your help is appriciated!
 

War Against Betaism

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Good luck in college man! Lots of people take college for granted, pains me to see kids that don't try anymore and settle for going into the workforce right after high school. College is just another experience; everyone is just so much nicer, and depending on your campus, it's basically a giant icebreaker; there's just a lot of things to do to break the ice with a girl. So easy to ask a girl after she's done with classes, "wanna go grab something to eat?" and unless she's genuinely busy, they rarely flake.
 

AlexLefty

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Ahh sh1t it bring tears to my eyes bro..:cry:

Good luck with what life has in store for you!! I personally, and a lot of others, owe you a lot. Keep on truckin man, and come check by here every once n a while to see how your lil padaWans (haha get it? :crackup:) are doing :rock:

Best of wishes
-Lefty
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hero_hont

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AlexLefty said:
Ahh sh1t it bring tears to my eyes bro..:cry:

Good luck with what life has in store for you!! I personally, and a lot of others, owe you a lot. Keep on truckin man, and come check by here every once n a while to see how your lil padaWans (haha get it? :crackup:) are doing :rock:

Best of wishes
-Lefty
This is I want talk:
It's likely to snow tonight
I gazed out of the window
"Goodbye and good luck my friend"

She said to me "Will you come/"
I didn't know whether to stay or go
I wish I could be there someday

Yes I think it's all right
She'll make out fine with no mistakes

Looking back on the good old days
We had a long talk about it
We were awake through the night oh yeah

I'll miss you very much if you move
I want to go there with you
My dream will come true someday

Yes I think it's all right
She'll make out fine with no mistakes

I wonder if it will be fine
Will be fine tomorrow
In the cold winter night I say

Goodbye and good luck to you yeah
I wish to go there
Oh see you again

I thought of the happy days
When I was in our dream
Yeah see you again
The snow whispers down wo yeah
 
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