"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Goodbye and good luck to you all!

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eaglez1177

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Well my friends, I am officially a college man! Just got down here to JMU a few days ago, and its awesome!

Anyways, I just wanted to wish you all the best of luck in everything you do here on SS and out in the field. Never give up, and remember that what you put in to improving yourself is what you will get out. I really wish I could say more but unfortunatley I've been very short on time lately between orientation, new friends, etc.

I'll still stop by here every now and then, so I'll cya all soon!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NorwegianDJ

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Have fun at college man! A lot of people here on the HS forum owes you a great thanks, your help is appriciated!
 
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Good luck in college man! Lots of people take college for granted, pains me to see kids that don't try anymore and settle for going into the workforce right after high school. College is just another experience; everyone is just so much nicer, and depending on your campus, it's basically a giant icebreaker; there's just a lot of things to do to break the ice with a girl. So easy to ask a girl after she's done with classes, "wanna go grab something to eat?" and unless she's genuinely busy, they rarely flake.
 
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Ahh sh1t it bring tears to my eyes bro..:cry:

Good luck with what life has in store for you!! I personally, and a lot of others, owe you a lot. Keep on truckin man, and come check by here every once n a while to see how your lil padaWans (haha get it? :crackup:) are doing :rock:

Best of wishes
-Lefty
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AlexLefty said:
Ahh sh1t it bring tears to my eyes bro..:cry:

Good luck with what life has in store for you!! I personally, and a lot of others, owe you a lot. Keep on truckin man, and come check by here every once n a while to see how your lil padaWans (haha get it? :crackup:) are doing :rock:

Best of wishes
-Lefty
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This is I want talk:
It's likely to snow tonight
I gazed out of the window
"Goodbye and good luck my friend"

She said to me "Will you come/"
I didn't know whether to stay or go
I wish I could be there someday

Yes I think it's all right
She'll make out fine with no mistakes

Looking back on the good old days
We had a long talk about it
We were awake through the night oh yeah

I'll miss you very much if you move
I want to go there with you
My dream will come true someday

Yes I think it's all right
She'll make out fine with no mistakes

I wonder if it will be fine
Will be fine tomorrow
In the cold winter night I say

Goodbye and good luck to you yeah
I wish to go there
Oh see you again

I thought of the happy days
When I was in our dream
Yeah see you again
The snow whispers down wo yeah
 
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