Good with the girls but bad rep

[RaMar]

Its been over 2 years since I discovered this website and my girl skills are now at a decent level. The problem is I kind of have a bad reputation at school from my first 3 years of high school (senior now) of being a loser/geek/whatever and while I've changed this year most people still see me as that person I was before.

The situation now is I can get that initial interest from a girl, a date, etc but then people at school find out that she is dating me and they go and say all these negative things about me to her. This is usually as far as things get as no one wants to be dating a loser. I'm starting to think I don't have a chance at getting with any of the girls as my school for an extended period of time and I will have to wait until next year at college where I will have a clean slate.

Does anyone else have this problem. What can I do about this?

 

[average joe2003]

be more stronger. dont be a pvssy. High school is nothing but 4 years of social gathering. people talk, gossips, and spreads rumors. deal with it because THIS IS HIGH SCHOOL

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

When I was in high school there was this guy that was with his gf in school like all day! if you saw him he would probably be walking with his gf holding hands, they would have the same classes, when it was break time they would go to a spot to be alone never anywhere near crowds, always somewhere quiet where they could talk. They didn't hang out with anyone, it was just them two. He was always well dressed and clean he was not caring about other people and enjoying his time at school with his gf. Im only giving you that story so you can realize that THE REST DON'T MATTER! What other people say affects you because you let it affect you. You can be with your gf and just with your gf. You can avoid the crowds, the cliques, the morons, the b|tches and just be with your gf.

You can dissassociate yourself from people if you want to, and this is what you have to do in your case.

I admired that guy because he was an old style boyfriend in an old style relationship where it is more about dissasociating yourself from other people and being with your gf. These days a relationship is not just a guy and a girl, but you have all the gossipy girlfriends of your gf plus all your other friends and stupid people and crowds etc. That guy thought his gf was the important thing, what mattered to him and he concentrated his time just on her.

 

[Afterbust]

kick the **** out of some faggot and its changed like that

 

[Reach]

It's hard for people to accept you've changed. Don't worry about it, they don't matter. If you want to meet girls you can always meet them somewhere at a mall or from another school. Don't spend all your life worrying.

Most people on their death bed say something like "i wish I spent less time worrying and more time laughing and doing something." You seem like a cool dude, take it easy.