"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good ways to DHV in short time

Mando

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It seems when I meet most girls, I only have 3-6mins max before one of us has to run off to class(usually me, my classes are within 10mins of each other and pretty far). Usually I have to end the conversation with "alright well I have to get going, it was nice meeting you" or something similar because I don't feel I built enough comfort or DHV to go for a number close, and I have to hope I see them again if I have any chance of getting in contact with them.

Anyone have any tips/tricks on how to build DHV/attraction in a short amount of time, for example 5 minutes or so?

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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say hi and bye for a week and then ask for her number and take her out for a drink on a mid day like tues or something
 

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Mando said:
It seems when I meet most girls, I only have 3-6mins max before one of us has to run off to class(usually me, my classes are within 10mins of each other and pretty far). Usually I have to end the conversation with "alright well I have to get going, it was nice meeting you" or something similar because I don't feel I built enough comfort or DHV to go for a number close, and I have to hope I see them again if I have any chance of getting in contact with them.

Anyone have any tips/tricks on how to build DHV/attraction in a short amount of time, for example 5 minutes or so?

Thanks in advance.
F*ck all this 'building attraction' and/or 'building comfort' etc. Just go for the number close, even if you've only had a few minutes to talk...always remember your ABC's....ALWAYS BE CLOSING!

In fact, when number closing, suggest meeting up with her...'Hey, I've got to run along to class now, but what are you doing later? Do you want to hook up this afternoon/evening etc?' Then you exchange numbers. Simple.

And stop thinking in terms of using 'tips and tricks' to attract girls. It is YOU and YOUR PERSONALITY that ultimately make you attractive to women, not some 'tip or trick'.

Good luck, now start closing EVERY girl you approach and you should start turning those approaches into hookups.
 

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imaginemypotential said:
say hi and bye for a week and then ask for her number and take her out for a drink on a mid day like tues or something
FTW!!!
 

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First of all I wouldn't handle things that way. After my class Id find a girl sitting outside on a bench and approach her there. Go talk to her and hold her hand and kiss her, then you can get the number too.

Getting the number in the hall, bothering to call and set something up, bothering go meet her.. aggh it's starting to get to be a lot of work. I'd rather just make out with the damn girl on the spot than go through all that bull****. You need to become lazier.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alright, I'll try some of this stuff out. Probably will end up just number closing every girl from now on, rejection doesn't bother me much lol. Met this cutie in one of my classes, I think she likes me because she came up to me and started convos with me twice, and walked with me to my class(its kinda far haha) even though she doesn't have class. She also hinted how she always has to eat lunch by herself, so I'll probably ask her to lunch Friday or somethin =]
 

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ABO-ALWAYS BE OPENING...........trust me you don't want EVERYgirls phone number.......build rapport FOR YOU........to see if the chic is cool on the inside.

U are on te right track you approached AND TALKED TO women.........so now keep it flowin........"its was cool talking to you I gotta run, hey we should do something real soon, gimme your number and I'll call ya"

Keep it natural.......
 
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