"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good ways to DHV in short time

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It seems when I meet most girls, I only have 3-6mins max before one of us has to run off to class(usually me, my classes are within 10mins of each other and pretty far). Usually I have to end the conversation with "alright well I have to get going, it was nice meeting you" or something similar because I don't feel I built enough comfort or DHV to go for a number close, and I have to hope I see them again if I have any chance of getting in contact with them.

Anyone have any tips/tricks on how to build DHV/attraction in a short amount of time, for example 5 minutes or so?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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say hi and bye for a week and then ask for her number and take her out for a drink on a mid day like tues or something
 
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Mando said:
It seems when I meet most girls, I only have 3-6mins max before one of us has to run off to class(usually me, my classes are within 10mins of each other and pretty far). Usually I have to end the conversation with "alright well I have to get going, it was nice meeting you" or something similar because I don't feel I built enough comfort or DHV to go for a number close, and I have to hope I see them again if I have any chance of getting in contact with them.

Anyone have any tips/tricks on how to build DHV/attraction in a short amount of time, for example 5 minutes or so?

Thanks in advance.
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F*ck all this 'building attraction' and/or 'building comfort' etc. Just go for the number close, even if you've only had a few minutes to talk...always remember your ABC's....ALWAYS BE CLOSING!

In fact, when number closing, suggest meeting up with her...'Hey, I've got to run along to class now, but what are you doing later? Do you want to hook up this afternoon/evening etc?' Then you exchange numbers. Simple.

And stop thinking in terms of using 'tips and tricks' to attract girls. It is YOU and YOUR PERSONALITY that ultimately make you attractive to women, not some 'tip or trick'.

Good luck, now start closing EVERY girl you approach and you should start turning those approaches into hookups.
 
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say hi and bye for a week and then ask for her number and take her out for a drink on a mid day like tues or something
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FTW!!!
 
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First of all I wouldn't handle things that way. After my class Id find a girl sitting outside on a bench and approach her there. Go talk to her and hold her hand and kiss her, then you can get the number too.

Getting the number in the hall, bothering to call and set something up, bothering go meet her.. aggh it's starting to get to be a lot of work. I'd rather just make out with the damn girl on the spot than go through all that bull****. You need to become lazier.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alright, I'll try some of this stuff out. Probably will end up just number closing every girl from now on, rejection doesn't bother me much lol. Met this cutie in one of my classes, I think she likes me because she came up to me and started convos with me twice, and walked with me to my class(its kinda far haha) even though she doesn't have class. She also hinted how she always has to eat lunch by herself, so I'll probably ask her to lunch Friday or somethin =]
 
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ABO-ALWAYS BE OPENING...........trust me you don't want EVERYgirls phone number.......build rapport FOR YOU........to see if the chic is cool on the inside.

U are on te right track you approached AND TALKED TO women.........so now keep it flowin........"its was cool talking to you I gotta run, hey we should do something real soon, gimme your number and I'll call ya"

Keep it natural.......
 
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