"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Good voice mail message
- Thread starter jookins
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
you also want to sound like you have some maturity. just say your damn name and keep it brief..
I have this thing about not liking to hear my voice, so I don't have a voice mail, it's just that automated woman
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
(in a sarcastic tone)
Michele l'Arcangelo
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exactly.backbreaker said:you want a voice mail that your boss can call you and not fire you on the spot.
you also want to sound like you have some maturity. just say your damn name and keep it brief..
obsidian, music in the background? honestly thats lame. i'll honestly say that i play off of people that do that... i usually joke about people that do that.
there's no need to force people to listen to your music on a ****ty phone speaker... it's kinda like those idiots who buy call tones (not ringers) instead of hearing a ring in the earphone. if they were interested in your music... they'd ask you what music you like.
snorida, no way... that's trying too hard... it's implying you're TRYING WAY to hard with the C&F with girls. why would you waste TWO good voicemail messages (or even buy a 2nd line) dedicated to girls that shouldn't even be calling you (balls always in your field... you call them when you need something).
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
davester88
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" Hey, sorry I missed your call, but I'm out making changes in my life. And if I don't call you back, your probably one of them"
gets em every time
"What does your voice mail greeting sound like and whats a good way to record one?"
What are Business Clients calling you or something? Lol, wtf dude.
You wnat a great VM for chicks? Do a natural, relaxed, sexy one.
Get into a nice, cool, sexual state of mind,
"what's up baby.....this j...i'm not here right now...but leave me a message...and i'll get back at u....1...."
I mean, I told you guys my thing before. I always have phone sex with my chicks first. Then our first "date" is a sexual encounter. After that, I determine whether or not I will continue with her as a fvck partner of if I actually like her and if she fulfills my needs.
But at first, just keep everything light, cool, relaxed, and sexual.....I mean, stop ruining the mood with your over-analysing bullshyt...this chick is trying to nvt over here. Remember AT THE BEGINNING, all the chick is trying to do is bust a God Damn Nvt. Okay, so keep it sexual, and allow her to bust some great nvts. Now, after we've discovered that we can have great sex together, NOOOWWWW, a "relationship" could be next.
But remember, the process with women is this.
1. Find a Great Fvck First
2. Find a Great Relationship Second
Don't think that you are getting to second base without knowing how to fvck her mind then fvck her body. Dude, it ain't happening, and that's why AFCS and guys that are sooo nice to not want to be sexual to a girl, this is why these guys are great for relationships but can get NOWHERE WITH THE CHICK.
The chick's process is that you must BE A GOOD FVCKER FIRST.
GOOD FVCKER FIRST....write that down.
- DJF