I have been thinking about going on a trip outside of North America for two to three weeks sometime in November or December. There is a very good chance I will be making this trip solo, and in some cases, I almost prefer it that way. My original plan was to go backpacking in Australia, but I was wondering if any of you had other ideas on where I can go for a trip involving at least a bit of adventure, and maybe meet a few people (with a possibility of a vacation fling).
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Good travel destinations for a single guy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I'd recommend Europe. (Hint..europe babes are 'great' lovers) Aside be told, pick a place you have a geniune interest in exploring.Doc73 said:
Regardless, go! Wherever you decide, you will have an experience.
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If you're going in Nov/Dec hit the southern hemisphere so you get their summer. Australia would probably be awesome!!:yes:
I went to Europe last December/January and it was gorgeous but the cold made it probably a lot more taxing than if it was summer. Unless you're into cold, in which case Europe is perfect. :box:
I went to Europe last December/January and it was gorgeous but the cold made it probably a lot more taxing than if it was summer. Unless you're into cold, in which case Europe is perfect. :box:
:wave:"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.