I have been thinking about going on a trip outside of North America for two to three weeks sometime in November or December. There is a very good chance I will be making this trip solo, and in some cases, I almost prefer it that way. My original plan was to go backpacking in Australia, but I was wondering if any of you had other ideas on where I can go for a trip involving at least a bit of adventure, and maybe meet a few people (with a possibility of a vacation fling).
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I'd recommend Europe. (Hint..europe babes are 'great' lovers) Aside be told, pick a place you have a geniune interest in exploring.Doc73 said:
Regardless, go! Wherever you decide, you will have an experience.
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If you're going in Nov/Dec hit the southern hemisphere so you get their summer. Australia would probably be awesome!!:yes:
I went to Europe last December/January and it was gorgeous but the cold made it probably a lot more taxing than if it was summer. Unless you're into cold, in which case Europe is perfect. :box:
I went to Europe last December/January and it was gorgeous but the cold made it probably a lot more taxing than if it was summer. Unless you're into cold, in which case Europe is perfect. :box:
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