I have been thinking about going on a trip outside of North America for two to three weeks sometime in November or December. There is a very good chance I will be making this trip solo, and in some cases, I almost prefer it that way. My original plan was to go backpacking in Australia, but I was wondering if any of you had other ideas on where I can go for a trip involving at least a bit of adventure, and maybe meet a few people (with a possibility of a vacation fling).
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
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I'd recommend Europe. (Hint..europe babes are 'great' lovers) Aside be told, pick a place you have a geniune interest in exploring.Doc73 said:
Regardless, go! Wherever you decide, you will have an experience.
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If you're going in Nov/Dec hit the southern hemisphere so you get their summer. Australia would probably be awesome!!:yes:
I went to Europe last December/January and it was gorgeous but the cold made it probably a lot more taxing than if it was summer. Unless you're into cold, in which case Europe is perfect. :box:
I went to Europe last December/January and it was gorgeous but the cold made it probably a lot more taxing than if it was summer. Unless you're into cold, in which case Europe is perfect. :box:
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.