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Don Juan
Do you guys know some high-quality sex books,either from the famous dating gurus or anyone else? Or, are there some good videos of it?(of educational sex,not porn!)
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm waiting....Distant Light said:Yes I have a huge amount I will post the names later today because have to go in a bit.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Distant Light said:lol sry forgot about this thread this is all the stuff I have
1. The art of oral sex
2. How to make love all night and drive a women Wild
3. Top 100 love making techniques of all time
4. Art of kissing
5. Basic Arousal
6. Tantra swedish Massage
7. Art of making love
8. sex positions
9/10/11 Savieri & Kline: Legendary Lover
12. 40 great sex tips
13. Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex
14. Exploring the Secrets of the Female ****oris
15. Guide To G-Spot Orgasms & Female Ejaculation
16. How to Eat ***** and have fun
17. The Ultimate Female Orgasm
I have a few others that are great, most of these books I haven't read yet most of them are ebooks. There was this one technique I will never forget called fingers of fury its crazy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.