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Don Juan
Do you guys know some high-quality sex books,either from the famous dating gurus or anyone else? Or, are there some good videos of it?(of educational sex,not porn!)
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm waiting....Distant Light said:Yes I have a huge amount I will post the names later today because have to go in a bit.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Distant Light said:lol sry forgot about this thread this is all the stuff I have
1. The art of oral sex
2. How to make love all night and drive a women Wild
3. Top 100 love making techniques of all time
4. Art of kissing
5. Basic Arousal
6. Tantra swedish Massage
7. Art of making love
8. sex positions
9/10/11 Savieri & Kline: Legendary Lover
12. 40 great sex tips
13. Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex
14. Exploring the Secrets of the Female ****oris
15. Guide To G-Spot Orgasms & Female Ejaculation
16. How to Eat ***** and have fun
17. The Ultimate Female Orgasm
I have a few others that are great, most of these books I haven't read yet most of them are ebooks. There was this one technique I will never forget called fingers of fury its crazy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.