"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Good rnb songs to have sex to?
- Thread starter J89
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Squiggly Sponge
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 14, 2007
- Messages
- 53
- Reaction score
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Robin Thicke - I need love
Omarion - Do it, do it
The slower songs tend to work better for foreplay.
Charlie Wilson - Charley, Last Name Wilson
Contagious - isley bros
Crush On You (LP Version) Feat. Mario Winans - mr.cheeks
anything by d'angelo
Do U Wanna- donell jones
Down Low Feat. R Kelly - isley bros
Grind With Me - pretty ricky
walked out of heaven - jagged edge
South Side Feat.Ashanti - lloyd
one wish - ray j
On My Way / (Sex Interlude) - Ginuwine
Loungin (Who Do Ya Luv) - LL Cool J
Tonight It's Goin' Down - Babyface
One Call Away ft. J/Weav - Chingy
My Bestfriend (Kelly Price,Mr Biggs,R.kelly)
anything by bilal
most stuff by musiq soulchild
that shud be enough to get the party started......
JackPrescott
Banned
- Joined
- Apr 19, 2005
- Messages
- 860
- Reaction score
- 7
2. Between the Sheets
3. Rock Wit'cha....Bobby B.
4. Deja Vu...Dionne Warwick
5. Saving all my love for you...Whitney Houston
6. To the Fire...Chaka Khan
7. Sunrise...Simply Red
8. You'll never find...Lou Rawls
9. Sexual Healing....Marvin Gaye
10. "Let's Get it on"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
CTApprentice
Don Juan
2.Contagious-Isley Brothers
3.Suffocate-J. Holiday
4.Grind on me-Pretty Ricky
5.Your body(Yes sir)-Pretty Ricky
6.On the hotline-Pretty Ricky
7.Sexy Can I-Ray J
8.Falsetto-The Dream
9.Love in this club-Usher ft. Young Jeezy
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
sex with you - marques houston
if you're making love, i highly suggest
kenny g - forever in love