"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Squiggly Sponge
Don Juan
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- Nov 14, 2007
- Messages
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Robin Thicke - I need love
Omarion - Do it, do it
The slower songs tend to work better for foreplay.
Charlie Wilson - Charley, Last Name Wilson
Contagious - isley bros
Crush On You (LP Version) Feat. Mario Winans - mr.cheeks
anything by d'angelo
Do U Wanna- donell jones
Down Low Feat. R Kelly - isley bros
Grind With Me - pretty ricky
walked out of heaven - jagged edge
South Side Feat.Ashanti - lloyd
one wish - ray j
On My Way / (Sex Interlude) - Ginuwine
Loungin (Who Do Ya Luv) - LL Cool J
Tonight It's Goin' Down - Babyface
One Call Away ft. J/Weav - Chingy
My Bestfriend (Kelly Price,Mr Biggs,R.kelly)
anything by bilal
most stuff by musiq soulchild
that shud be enough to get the party started......
JackPrescott
Banned
- Joined
- Apr 19, 2005
- Messages
- 860
- Reaction score
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2. Between the Sheets
3. Rock Wit'cha....Bobby B.
4. Deja Vu...Dionne Warwick
5. Saving all my love for you...Whitney Houston
6. To the Fire...Chaka Khan
7. Sunrise...Simply Red
8. You'll never find...Lou Rawls
9. Sexual Healing....Marvin Gaye
10. "Let's Get it on"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
CTApprentice
Don Juan
2.Contagious-Isley Brothers
3.Suffocate-J. Holiday
4.Grind on me-Pretty Ricky
5.Your body(Yes sir)-Pretty Ricky
6.On the hotline-Pretty Ricky
7.Sexy Can I-Ray J
8.Falsetto-The Dream
9.Love in this club-Usher ft. Young Jeezy
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
sex with you - marques houston
if you're making love, i highly suggest
kenny g - forever in love