"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was out with some friends and a friend who is a girl introduces me to her brother whom we met later on.

WE proceeded to talk about getting a drink from a stand (we where at a fair) and my friend who is the girl, her brother told us about a young girl who works at one of the stands at the fair and that he knew her and we could get free drinks from.

HE then proceeded to talk badly about this girl and say nasty things about the way she sleeps around with other men. He called her the "Communal who&re" who is about 16 yrs old.

Then I said as a Joke "Well maybe we could go to the stand and get a little something else"

He then proceeded to say "Oh man your pretty low going for such a young girl" Since I am 20

I said "Age is just a number" (WIth a grin)

I am wondering what else I could have said to produce a little more sting.

I really wanted to get in his face and kick his ass, since he doesnt even know me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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theapprentice said:
He then proceeded to say "Oh man your pretty low going for such a young girl" Since I am 20
I would have said either one of these:

"wo! damn! I can't believe you thought I was actually being serious! you're sick dude!"

Or

"Well if you see her as being so young, why do you get a kick out of putting her down?"
 

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Shezz said:
16 is legal here mate hehe

You could have said:

- Every Hole is a goal.

- Damn you sick freak, i was talking about the Tequila!!

- *Used your body language/facial expressions to mess with him*
Or the wise words of the stiffler...

"p*ssy is p*ssy man!"

:)
 

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theapprentice said:
I was out with some friends and a friend who is a girl introduces me to her brother whom we met later on.

WE proceeded to talk about getting a drink from a stand (we where at a fair) and my friend who is the girl, her brother told us about a young girl who works at one of the stands at the fair and that he knew her and we could get free drinks from.

HE then proceeded to talk badly about this girl and say nasty things about the way she sleeps around with other men. He called her the "Communal who&re" who is about 16 yrs old.

Then I said as a Joke "Well maybe we could go to the stand and get a little something else"

He then proceeded to say "Oh man your pretty low going for such a young girl" Since I am 20

I said "Age is just a number" (WIth a grin)

I am wondering what else I could have said to produce a little more sting.

I really wanted to get in his face and kick his ass, since he doesnt even know me.
I don't get it, was the guy joking? I mean if you said it pretty seriously and he thought you were serious, then that is kind of weird. Why did you wanna kick his ass lol? You seem like you have like an anger problem or something, all he did was joke right back at you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmm..

I really dont know why, but there is a voice inside me that says "he disrespected you" and that makes me mad. I dont know why my voice tells me this and maybe it stems from isecurtiy, because if your letting small things bother you then you are at some level insecure. I dont know.

But I just dont like people who I havent met yet, making comments about who I am and what I am like or passing negative judgements on me when I dont know them.

I was saying it like a joke, and if a friend of mine had said that I would have dismised it and that would be the end.

But a guy I dont know...that makes me mad as to "How dare you say something to me when I have been friendly to you and you dont know me on top of that."

Hey man, how do you get dandruff off a cvnt?

ANSWER: (Dust the guys shoulder sarcastically...)
HEHE....that was awsome...I was at work and I started laughing out loud.

I wish I could come up things like that.
 

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theapprentice said:
I was out with some friends and a friend who is a girl introduces me to her brother whom we met later on.

WE proceeded to talk about getting a drink from a stand (we where at a fair) and my friend who is the girl, her brother told us about a young girl who works at one of the stands at the fair and that he knew her and we could get free drinks from.

HE then proceeded to talk badly about this girl and say nasty things about the way she sleeps around with other men. He called her the "Communal who&re" who is about 16 yrs old.

Then I said as a Joke "Well maybe we could go to the stand and get a little something else"

He then proceeded to say "Oh man your pretty low going for such a young girl" Since I am 20

I said "Age is just a number" (WIth a grin)

I am wondering what else I could have said to produce a little more sting.

I really wanted to get in his face and kick his ass, since he doesnt even know me.
I would have gone even further.

"High school girls are where it's at! The younger the better!"

Etc. etc.

Don't let it get to you. It's nothing.
 
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