“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good response for a girl who said she was looking for me

teddy

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Was at a party and this girl said she had been looking for me. She was surprised to see me, but apparently she had been waiting for me to arrive and even texted me to ask where I was (but I was too busy to realize I got a text from her).

So when she found me she ran up and hugged me and said I could have at least responded to her text or told her I was there so that she could at least see me.

Best response I could think of was, "Oh geez, don't be so clingy."

But....are there any good ones out there? Had a hard time thinking of one on the spot since the ego boost felt too good.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You're on the right path bro. You need to ditch the ego mindset and not be bothered. The less bothered you are, the more she'll work to get your attention (if she's genuinely interested in you).

The bottom line - make her do all the work whilst you sit back and enjoy the show. ;)
 

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teddy said:
Best response I could think of was, "Oh geez, don't be so clingy." But....are there any good ones out there? Had a hard time thinking of one on the spot since the ego boost felt too good.
You're implying that was something wrong with the answer you gave her. Personally, I feel it was fine.
 

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adam225 said:
You're on the right path bro. You need to ditch the ego mindset and not be bothered. The less bothered you are, the more she'll work to get your attention (if she's genuinely interested in you).

The bottom line - make her do all the work whilst you sit back and enjoy the show. ;)

Yeah, the ego thing is a problem, but because of it, I appeared "not bothered" since all I gave her was that answer and that was it. When she tried to prod me more, I couldn't think of anything so I didn't say anything.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
You're implying that was something wrong with the answer you gave her. Personally, I feel it was fine.
Okay, I wasn't sure if it was the best response, it was the only thing I could think of.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Why are you so concerned about saying the "right" thing.

Just act like its no big deal, happens often, and let your ego cool
 
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