"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good response for a girl who said she was looking for me

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Was at a party and this girl said she had been looking for me. She was surprised to see me, but apparently she had been waiting for me to arrive and even texted me to ask where I was (but I was too busy to realize I got a text from her).

So when she found me she ran up and hugged me and said I could have at least responded to her text or told her I was there so that she could at least see me.

Best response I could think of was, "Oh geez, don't be so clingy."

But....are there any good ones out there? Had a hard time thinking of one on the spot since the ego boost felt too good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You're on the right path bro. You need to ditch the ego mindset and not be bothered. The less bothered you are, the more she'll work to get your attention (if she's genuinely interested in you).

The bottom line - make her do all the work whilst you sit back and enjoy the show. ;)
 
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teddy said:
Best response I could think of was, "Oh geez, don't be so clingy." But....are there any good ones out there? Had a hard time thinking of one on the spot since the ego boost felt too good.
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You're implying that was something wrong with the answer you gave her. Personally, I feel it was fine.
 
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adam225 said:
You're on the right path bro. You need to ditch the ego mindset and not be bothered. The less bothered you are, the more she'll work to get your attention (if she's genuinely interested in you).

The bottom line - make her do all the work whilst you sit back and enjoy the show. ;)
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Yeah, the ego thing is a problem, but because of it, I appeared "not bothered" since all I gave her was that answer and that was it. When she tried to prod me more, I couldn't think of anything so I didn't say anything.
 
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Maximus Rex said:
You're implying that was something wrong with the answer you gave her. Personally, I feel it was fine.
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Okay, I wasn't sure if it was the best response, it was the only thing I could think of.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why are you so concerned about saying the "right" thing.

Just act like its no big deal, happens often, and let your ego cool
 
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