Good response for a girl who said she was looking for me

[teddy]

Was at a party and this girl said she had been looking for me. She was surprised to see me, but apparently she had been waiting for me to arrive and even texted me to ask where I was (but I was too busy to realize I got a text from her).

So when she found me she ran up and hugged me and said I could have at least responded to her text or told her I was there so that she could at least see me.

Best response I could think of was, "Oh geez, don't be so clingy."

But....are there any good ones out there? Had a hard time thinking of one on the spot since the ego boost felt too good.

 

[adam225]

You're on the right path bro. You need to ditch the ego mindset and not be bothered. The less bothered you are, the more she'll work to get your attention (if she's genuinely interested in you).

The bottom line - make her do all the work whilst you sit back and enjoy the show.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Everything Shouldn't be Questioned

Best response I could think of was, "Oh geez, don't be so clingy." But....are there any good ones out there? Had a hard time thinking of one on the spot since the ego boost felt too good.

You're implying that was something wrong with the answer you gave her. Personally, I feel it was fine.

 

[teddy]

You're on the right path bro. You need to ditch the ego mindset and not be bothered. The less bothered you are, the more she'll work to get your attention (if she's genuinely interested in you).

The bottom line - make her do all the work whilst you sit back and enjoy the show.

Yeah, the ego thing is a problem, but because of it, I appeared "not bothered" since all I gave her was that answer and that was it. When she tried to prod me more, I couldn't think of anything so I didn't say anything.

 

[teddy]

You're implying that was something wrong with the answer you gave her. Personally, I feel it was fine.

Okay, I wasn't sure if it was the best response, it was the only thing I could think of.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

Why are you so concerned about saying the "right" thing.

Just act like its no big deal, happens often, and let your ego cool