so this new girl started at my work and she's been very flirtatious, pressing up against me, grabbing my arm, tons of kino. She is training to be a boss in the company eventually so I'm like should I go for it. I got her number the other day we haven't worked together much recently but we do work together a lot after this week. I'm wondering how should I proceed?
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Maximus Rex
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Hell Why Not.
Only if you don't give a flying eff about your job security. Go ahead, have at it.dice said:
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
If you're spinning plates, just looking for a fling, etc its dangerous. If you plan on going full AFC and going slow, a lot of guys meet their wives at work.
Overall though, probably a really bad idea.
Overall though, probably a really bad idea.
abe0
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Same advice as Rex....stay away from office romance. Its is a loose loose situation. What happens when she is pissed off at you ...or you dump her cause she pissed you off...and you have to see her at work the next day? Can't people think beyond the next day and their d*ck? Only exception is if a company is soooooo big you work buildings away and never in contact with them at work.
Abe
Abe
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how many women work at your job and how involved is she with them ?
you'd be very surprised at how quickly women can turn other women against you and in an office environment it can be toxic
if you must proceed
show extremely little - no interest in work , don't be cold but just don't give any indication your interested in her goods
make your move on a works night out after plenty of drinks
you'd be very surprised at how quickly women can turn other women against you and in an office environment it can be toxic
if you must proceed
show extremely little - no interest in work , don't be cold but just don't give any indication your interested in her goods
make your move on a works night out after plenty of drinks
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The thing I find about 'attractive' women in work is that the attraction arises from a) over-exposure to that one individual, hence ease of constant prolonged access and consequent familiarity and, b) under-exposure to other individuals, hence the one individual becomes 'the best of a bad bunch'.
Out in the wider world, that one individual in large external group, she'd likely fade in to the crowd. She would likely behave quite differently. People are generally more confident and comfortable personalities at work because they are familiar.
I currently have a stalker at work. Awww-Kwarrrd.
Out in the wider world, that one individual in large external group, she'd likely fade in to the crowd. She would likely behave quite differently. People are generally more confident and comfortable personalities at work because they are familiar.
I currently have a stalker at work. Awww-Kwarrrd.