"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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good or bad reputation?

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Chase12

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ok the thing is.. lately ive been told by some girls in my new school that i have no heart (i dun get emotionally attached), and they couldnt picture me loving someone, etc. so i asked around and lots of girls think this way about me (wtf?)

and this is the thing that shocked me... i was talking about this girl about that gay movie the notebook and i told her that all that romantic crap was bull**** and all the sudden she came on the defensive telling me i was inmature, with no self respect, and insecure for apparently not being able to be in a loving relationship, instead hooking up with different girls in parties, etc. ]

So i told her that i have yet to find that special somone, and then she asks me if im gonna keep hooking up with girls till i found that special someone, that that was wrong blah blah

so aparently most girls in school think im a heartless bastard o_O so guys i ask is this good or bad?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Personally, I don't care that I'm "the meanest person in the world". Make jokes, don't constantly apologise. Probably them trying to make me feel bad so I'm extra nice to make up. Fat chance.
 
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Just tell them you're picky, and it takes a hell of a girl to win you over.
"I'm only nice if you deserve it ;)"
 
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another thing... i just heard this girl i almost ended in a relationship with(both liked each other but we were in the same classes so we both said **** it) said that i was "an ******* when im with my friends, but alone with her i was sweet,etc".. am i falling in the nice guy trap here? i dunno i usually treat most girls badly sumtimes ( cant help it xD) including her so i dunno
 
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