"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chase12

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ok the thing is.. lately ive been told by some girls in my new school that i have no heart (i dun get emotionally attached), and they couldnt picture me loving someone, etc. so i asked around and lots of girls think this way about me (wtf?)

and this is the thing that shocked me... i was talking about this girl about that gay movie the notebook and i told her that all that romantic crap was bull**** and all the sudden she came on the defensive telling me i was inmature, with no self respect, and insecure for apparently not being able to be in a loving relationship, instead hooking up with different girls in parties, etc. ]

So i told her that i have yet to find that special somone, and then she asks me if im gonna keep hooking up with girls till i found that special someone, that that was wrong blah blah

so aparently most girls in school think im a heartless bastard o_O so guys i ask is this good or bad?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Personally, I don't care that I'm "the meanest person in the world". Make jokes, don't constantly apologise. Probably them trying to make me feel bad so I'm extra nice to make up. Fat chance.
 
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Just tell them you're picky, and it takes a hell of a girl to win you over.
"I'm only nice if you deserve it ;)"
 
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another thing... i just heard this girl i almost ended in a relationship with(both liked each other but we were in the same classes so we both said **** it) said that i was "an ******* when im with my friends, but alone with her i was sweet,etc".. am i falling in the nice guy trap here? i dunno i usually treat most girls badly sumtimes ( cant help it xD) including her so i dunno
 
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