"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good Old "I'm Confused"

Big Ghetto Frank

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ahh, the fallback forum (meant in the kindest way) :D... pretty sure this girl has got me in her sights, and I'm the same... I'm a Semi-Don the way I rate myself, easy with talking to women, easy with picking them up, hopeless at reading them completely...

I don't really go for girls all that often, very choosy about how I want to play it (content with myself unless the chick appeals to me mentally and physically) and I've got a girl that I'm keen on... went out with her tonight, just moments ago in fact... had hooked up with her previously and talked about it with her recently... told her tonight how i feel, that I do like her, that I would love to take her out sorta deal.. she said she's very confused about **** at the moment, she likes me but has issues coz of her ex... same old deal I've heard before, but not sure whether to play it as a friend, or keep trying for it... i told her i'd be happy to be friends but she'd know how I felt while we were doing it, trying the truthful approach, just got the whole "dont know, feel bad, sorry blah blah blah" answer....

opinions??? pimp style massive assistance needed :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desdinova

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told her tonight how i feel, that I do like her, that I would love to take her out sorta deal
And that's when you crashed and burned.

she said she's very confused about **** at the moment, she likes me but has issues coz of her ex... same old deal I've heard before,
You've probably heard it before because you told them how much you like them before. Eliminate barfing your feelings into girls' ears and you'll eliminate this line that you keep recieving.

i told her i'd be happy to be friends but she'd know how I felt while we were doing it, trying the truthful approach, just got the whole "dont know, feel bad, sorry blah blah blah" answer....
The minute you tell her how she makes you feel, she'll get defensive and begin blowing you off. You're better off to show her that you like her by your actions.... and I'm not talking about buying them candy, flowers, or teddy bears. I'm talking about using kino, teasing them, and being playful. Women will be more receptive to you if you do this.
 

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what flex' said...
 
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