"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good Old "I'm Confused"

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ahh, the fallback forum (meant in the kindest way) :D... pretty sure this girl has got me in her sights, and I'm the same... I'm a Semi-Don the way I rate myself, easy with talking to women, easy with picking them up, hopeless at reading them completely...

I don't really go for girls all that often, very choosy about how I want to play it (content with myself unless the chick appeals to me mentally and physically) and I've got a girl that I'm keen on... went out with her tonight, just moments ago in fact... had hooked up with her previously and talked about it with her recently... told her tonight how i feel, that I do like her, that I would love to take her out sorta deal.. she said she's very confused about **** at the moment, she likes me but has issues coz of her ex... same old deal I've heard before, but not sure whether to play it as a friend, or keep trying for it... i told her i'd be happy to be friends but she'd know how I felt while we were doing it, trying the truthful approach, just got the whole "dont know, feel bad, sorry blah blah blah" answer....

opinions??? pimp style massive assistance needed :p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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told her tonight how i feel, that I do like her, that I would love to take her out sorta deal
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And that's when you crashed and burned.

she said she's very confused about **** at the moment, she likes me but has issues coz of her ex... same old deal I've heard before,
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You've probably heard it before because you told them how much you like them before. Eliminate barfing your feelings into girls' ears and you'll eliminate this line that you keep recieving.

i told her i'd be happy to be friends but she'd know how I felt while we were doing it, trying the truthful approach, just got the whole "dont know, feel bad, sorry blah blah blah" answer....
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The minute you tell her how she makes you feel, she'll get defensive and begin blowing you off. You're better off to show her that you like her by your actions.... and I'm not talking about buying them candy, flowers, or teddy bears. I'm talking about using kino, teasing them, and being playful. Women will be more receptive to you if you do this.
 
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what flex' said...
 
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