"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good news from the doctor- wanted to share

zorg198

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Hello All,

I fee the need to share this wonderful news i got from my doctor yesterday... i had a tumor and the results came negative.. 3 weeks i was in a condition how to say it? scared? now i fell relieved .... i wish all of you to never have this situation .
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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backbreaker

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congrats man. i know you were probably scared to death.

my momma just had a scare like that a few months ago and hers came back negative as well. she's 46 and getting at that age where anything can be everything though she is in great health.

anyway glad to hear it man. use this new found relief to go slay some women!
 

zorg198

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Thank you guys , it was very scary because i never had this situation before. now i can go back to my life and as you said slay some women! :)
 

zorg198

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backbreaker said:
congrats man. i know you were probably scared to death.

my momma just had a scare like that a few months ago and hers came back negative as well. she's 46 and getting at that age where anything can be everything though she is in great health.

anyway glad to hear it man. use this new found relief to go slay some women!

Good to hear , i hope this will be the last time she will need to do this kind of the stuff.:)
 
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