Good move?

[chevelle]

Is it a good move to let girls know you are dating around? For example, i have been talking to a girl who is hot and cold with me--so i quit pursuing and started dating another girl. Old girl contacts me and i tell her i'm out with another hottie.

This just happened this weekend, so i have yet to see any results. Is this something that is necessary to raise interest or was is it pointless to let former girl know my current business/situation?

 

[wrender]

How did she react to you telling her that? The way you said it, it sounds like you were telling her it's too late and goodbye. Which is fine, but if you want to spin her plate too, then I think you should have been more subtle and implied that you had other options instead of stating it bluntly. Get her mind churning and let her believe that there might be competition. I think it's better to be ambiguous about it because if you state it bluntly it's alot easier for her to just come to terms that you've moved on so she should too.

 

[Ace_McGregor]

Yeah, I'd like to know what happens. I'm in the same situation. I've known this girl for awhile (through my friends, but she's not a close friends to me). She's been sending me mixed signals, but I'm holding back to move in until I'm more sure she's into me (b/c she's in my friend's circle, and I don't want to create an akward situation), so I'm taking a date to a party she's going to be at to gauge her reaction next weekend.