StrongBad
Don Juan
I lurk much more than I post around here, hence my meager post count, but I'm hoping to get some info from everybody.
I stumbled upon this site around April this past year and by just reading the bible and the posts around the discussion board I transformed myself rather quickly into a budding DJ.
I was able to pull many girls, get numbers with ease, manage a good share of sexual encounters with the women I wanted, I felt great and everything was well. My whole attitude changed
Then I met her...
I was drawn to this site because I had just ended a 2.5 year relationship and wanted to live out the rest of my college life having FUN and getting to know many women. An LTR was the furthest thing from my mind.
But I quickly found myself involved in this whirlwind romance with this girl who is so compatabile and similar to me it is eerie.
From the moment we met each other we couldn't get enough of one another. We slept together the first time we hung out (which was great btw). She fell quickly for me, telling me how she has this inexplicable bond with me and wants to be with me. I fell hard for her too, not the most DJ move, but I truly couldn't suppress what I was feeling. She told me she loved me and I said I felt the same way (I do feel in love with her. I loved my ex-girlfriend and I already feel much much stronger for this girl then I ever did with her.)
Keep in mind we haven't even known each other for a month! She seems to be the female equivalent of an AFC but is a solid 8 in my book.
Now, any "DJ" mentality and image that I used to put forth effortlessly around girls has vanished. I have become a sap. Wanting to hang out with her all the time, talkin to her for hours on the phone, etc etc.
But the thing is that she absolutely loves the way I act. She tells me so with the utmost sincerety.
I don't want to keep this up. But on the other hand, if I pull back and act distant, I think she'll be deeply hurt, because she seems to love me the way I am now.
Is it too late to revert back to my former ways? Is it even wise to do so? We are both very happy with one another right now the way things are.
I'm rambling and I hope I was able to convey my situation to everyone in a somewhat coherent manner.
I appreciate any comments or suggestions.
I stumbled upon this site around April this past year and by just reading the bible and the posts around the discussion board I transformed myself rather quickly into a budding DJ.
I was able to pull many girls, get numbers with ease, manage a good share of sexual encounters with the women I wanted, I felt great and everything was well. My whole attitude changed
Then I met her...
I was drawn to this site because I had just ended a 2.5 year relationship and wanted to live out the rest of my college life having FUN and getting to know many women. An LTR was the furthest thing from my mind.
But I quickly found myself involved in this whirlwind romance with this girl who is so compatabile and similar to me it is eerie.
From the moment we met each other we couldn't get enough of one another. We slept together the first time we hung out (which was great btw). She fell quickly for me, telling me how she has this inexplicable bond with me and wants to be with me. I fell hard for her too, not the most DJ move, but I truly couldn't suppress what I was feeling. She told me she loved me and I said I felt the same way (I do feel in love with her. I loved my ex-girlfriend and I already feel much much stronger for this girl then I ever did with her.)
Keep in mind we haven't even known each other for a month! She seems to be the female equivalent of an AFC but is a solid 8 in my book.
Now, any "DJ" mentality and image that I used to put forth effortlessly around girls has vanished. I have become a sap. Wanting to hang out with her all the time, talkin to her for hours on the phone, etc etc.
But the thing is that she absolutely loves the way I act. She tells me so with the utmost sincerety.
I don't want to keep this up. But on the other hand, if I pull back and act distant, I think she'll be deeply hurt, because she seems to love me the way I am now.
Is it too late to revert back to my former ways? Is it even wise to do so? We are both very happy with one another right now the way things are.
I'm rambling and I hope I was able to convey my situation to everyone in a somewhat coherent manner.
I appreciate any comments or suggestions.