"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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falconslax89

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I often tend to judge whether I like girls or not off of if I think her and I would create a good looking offspring.
There are some girls who I think are still good looking and I would love to ****, and even date, but not someone I would ultimately stay with for that long just because I don't think that girl and I would have a good looking child, and that bothers me.
My last girlfriend was a pretty girl(I could post a pic if anyone wants) but she had a butt chin and I could not take the risk of my son of daughter living their life that way. That chin was pretty insane. She had to go.
Anyway, does anyone else do this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I sorted more by intelligence. My eighth grader scored higher than 91% of high schoolers on the ACT test[a 28]> See how the junior does this spring
 

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sodbuster said:
I sorted more by intelligence. My eighth grader scored higher than 91% of high schoolers on the ACT test[a 28]> See how the junior does this spring
thats quite impressive, but i also want good looking children. not saying yours isnt.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm the same way.

There's chicks you want to fvck, and then you see the rare bird who just looks like you should breed her.
 

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I didn't go ugly, I went about an 8 with a brain instead of a 10 with none. Stupid,cute MEN don't do as well in life as stupid cute women. They both still have girls all over them,but aren't dating much because the stupidity of most women annoys them more than the prospect of sex intrigues them. I'm the same-When I talk to a woman of average intelligence-it's like the average guy talking to the "tards" washing tables at the mall[hard to spend much time talking to them and annoying when they start telling you how to run your life-like they are a life coach]
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
I'm the same way.

There's chicks you want to fvck, and then you see the rare bird who just looks like you should breed her.
haha exactly
 

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kingsam said:
dont be TOO strick on the looks, looks fade, whilst a personality dont....
peoples personalities do change..just saying.

havent you ever heard someone say "your not the person i used to know"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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