"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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falconslax89

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I often tend to judge whether I like girls or not off of if I think her and I would create a good looking offspring.
There are some girls who I think are still good looking and I would love to ****, and even date, but not someone I would ultimately stay with for that long just because I don't think that girl and I would have a good looking child, and that bothers me.
My last girlfriend was a pretty girl(I could post a pic if anyone wants) but she had a butt chin and I could not take the risk of my son of daughter living their life that way. That chin was pretty insane. She had to go.
Anyway, does anyone else do this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I sorted more by intelligence. My eighth grader scored higher than 91% of high schoolers on the ACT test[a 28]> See how the junior does this spring
 

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sodbuster said:
I sorted more by intelligence. My eighth grader scored higher than 91% of high schoolers on the ACT test[a 28]> See how the junior does this spring
thats quite impressive, but i also want good looking children. not saying yours isnt.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm the same way.

There's chicks you want to fvck, and then you see the rare bird who just looks like you should breed her.
 

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I didn't go ugly, I went about an 8 with a brain instead of a 10 with none. Stupid,cute MEN don't do as well in life as stupid cute women. They both still have girls all over them,but aren't dating much because the stupidity of most women annoys them more than the prospect of sex intrigues them. I'm the same-When I talk to a woman of average intelligence-it's like the average guy talking to the "tards" washing tables at the mall[hard to spend much time talking to them and annoying when they start telling you how to run your life-like they are a life coach]
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
I'm the same way.

There's chicks you want to fvck, and then you see the rare bird who just looks like you should breed her.
haha exactly
 

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kingsam said:
dont be TOO strick on the looks, looks fade, whilst a personality dont....
peoples personalities do change..just saying.

havent you ever heard someone say "your not the person i used to know"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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